For me and I would assume for most guys its the same but the first time I *** is pretty fast unless I try real hard not to do to much to soon which is no fun for either of us. She enjoys when Im going strong and fingering her very much but after my first which could be moments I try to finger her so she feels good for a few minutes until Im ready again and she tells me to stop but she responds like she likes it. She also doesnt jerk me or go down on me which may be why she doesnt want me to do her. Could it be that she has only been with guys who got on to get off and didnt really take her into account. I mean she moans and convulses like she really enjoys it when Im doing it. I feel pretty shitty when I dont last very long and then have to wait before I can start again so she can enjoy it to. It makes me feel the same way as when we are in the shower on her period, sorta degrating her, and she wont tell me when she is coming so I know when to stop or how many times she likes tocum
2006-10-28 10:43:21 · 3 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her
sex is so much better if there is good communication
2006-10-28 10:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are shes faking all of it. She probably doesn't like it thats why she tells you to stop. She prolly knows you enjoy sex and thinks to keep you around she needs to put out, and she's not worried about her self. I would recommend just asking her man. If your bad in bed, best you can do is ask her what she likes, have her show you.. If you can't last long only way to get over that takes a long time... She might just plain be uncofortable with the hole thing, but still wants to keep you around so she puts out. My Advice would be, ask her what she likes, because most likely she is faking that she likes it and you might actually be hurting her or something.. so .. just ask man.. tahts the only way to improve sexually(well not only way but best way)
2006-10-28 10:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by morfusaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes not a man, that's not all she worries about, when she starts complaining that's when you should worry,PS keep it up and your gonna chase her away.
2006-10-28 10:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋