My mom has been weird for 3 days.Crying and all.I don't know what to do?I've said I'm sorry but I don't know if I made her angry!She won't tell me whats wrong and today was supposed to be my fun day! We went to a party and came back after 10 minutes for no reason! I am Very angry at her and also worried.She is also getting angry at me and my dad for no reason!!!!!!!!
2006-10-28 10:35:24 · 19 answers · asked by ~SmileyFaceCrazy~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like she may be going through the change of life. Give her space and time and tell her you are worried and want to know if there is anything she wants you are there. Sometimes as the child we forget the parents go through emotional stuff too just like we do, but they are better at hiding it and putting their child's feelings and needs always first. GIve her a hug and some chocolate with a card that will probably make her cry and give you a hug too.
2006-10-28 11:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Steer clear when she's emotional. She's obviously got something deeply troubling her and it isn't you. If she's in her late 40's she could be starting menopause. That will cause a lot of women to experience emotional rollercoasters with a significant lack of patience thrown in for good measure. But whatever it is, she won't need to be constantly reminded that she's on edge. Be good, pitch in to help a lot with chores without being asked, and maybe plan with dad a fun day for your mother. Perhaps she needs one desperately. But don't get angry with her. That's the last thing she needs. Just let her know you love her and let her do the rest.
2006-10-28 17:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by STEVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Menopause seems to be everyone's answer. This is not menopause!!!! There is something going on that has put her in this state. Have you talked with her friends - they may be able to help you, but don't let her know, at least right away. Show her your love, do things to help her out, and maybe cook dinner one night for you and your family.
2006-10-29 01:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by noonecanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she has a personal problem with u or your dad.Did u hurt her feelings? well ask ur dad to find a way if not then u need a family psychologist.Maybe its menopause which has changed her system.My mom piss me off sometimes and and we hardly talk for days but something always come in.
2006-10-28 17:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I feel for you. Maybe she is depressed...Wish I could help you out better but all I can suggest is to tell her you are really worried about her and that you want her to know you love her no matter what....Hang in there. I am sure she needs you right now but is just struggling with a personal thing.
2006-10-28 17:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Vicki S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like mom may be going through some hard times. My advice would be to not get angry at her. You should hug her and tell her that you are there for her. Sometimes we (moms) need to know that.
~T~
2006-10-28 17:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by ~*bUtteRFy~*~kISSeS*~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She may be suffering from depression. Don't get angry. She can't help it. It's like having a broken arm only no one can see anything wrong. Your dad needs to get her to see a Dr.
2006-10-28 17:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like depression, menopause, or she found out that she is pregnant. She should seek counseling if this continues. Better yet have your father call the doctor to have a full check up. She might need some type of therapy.
2006-10-28 17:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by steve s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your mom is going through something that she doesn't want to talk about, just give her some space she will come around. Or maybe just ask her if everything is ok.
2006-10-28 23:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her or get someone to talk to her. If she's crying and angry and always upset then clearly something is very wrong. I'd do something soon
2006-10-28 17:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋