Ive had my fair share of really bad friends like that too. I hate beyond hate the stupid people who make plans with you and like the day before go ooops Im sorry I cant anymore. Like when I make plans with people I work around them and make darn sure that 95% percent of the time I can make it because I made a committment. People dont understand the meaning of being good friends anymore - Im surprised these people function properly in society. Dont feel bad - a lot of people arent worthy of your friendship if thats the way they act. Just hope that one day they will be sitting at home wondering why they have such shallow and pathetic social lives, by which time you will be older and will have found likeminded intelligent people to be friends with. They are out there and one great friend is worth 1000 bad ones. Keep searching for them....I still am.
2006-10-28 10:38:21
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answered by radiancia 6
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Here's a tip: stop feeling sorry for yourself. Every one makes choices in their life, whether it's to stay in the basement or not associate with some friends. Why not try giving of yourself? Like volunteering at the Animal shelter or the childrens hospital? You will find alot more self-worth giving than receiving, my friend. You have a gift. Now give it away and stop worrying about what others think of you. Godloveya.
2006-10-28 18:57:47
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answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7
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I'll be honest, your paragraph is a bit scattered and confusing, but what occured to me was that you're feeling both hurt and disappointed in the people you want to hang with rejecting you, avoiding you. And that sucks, I know, but maybe they just aren't the right people for you to be hanging with. I would recommend going to your doctor and asking for a referral to a psychologist's office, not cos you sound all screwed up in the head or anything, but you do sound like you need a consultant with all of this stuff, a consultant who went to school for 8 years for these kinds of things. You may also be clinically depressed. Good luck.
2006-10-28 18:22:45
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answered by Dr. Noodle 3
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aww babe lifes a reali bitc* its just your havin a ruff time ows abowt you find some nu ppl to hang around with and don't listen to all those ppl seyin go see a doctor evri1 gets down some time just go out their and get yourslef a grlfrend/boyfreind if you swing that way to give you some real love
i'm sure you'll pick one up straight away cause ur a total hottie
2006-10-28 18:17:13
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answered by Charlotte.♥ 3
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ur rambling. its called depression. Talk to your doctor. Medication and therapy is the only way to make a difference. Or else you'll continue living the same life. Plus, life is too short to waste on such mindless thinking.
2006-10-28 17:36:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Hon, it sounds like you are having a lot of 'bad days'!!!
You are probably giving off 'bad vibrations' from your negativity of yourself....
To feel better about yourself you need to get help....
I don't know your situation but it sounds like you have some one around you has placed a 'bad image' of yourself into your brain...
If you are under age tell your parents how badly you feel and that you would appreciate some help...
If you are an adult get counselling!
Don't wait till its too late!
Do it now!
2006-10-28 18:07:08
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answered by TRUE GRIT 5
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U need to stand up for yourself and make urself a better person who cares about the people that make fun of u, bcause one day ur going to be a better stronger person than them. and then they are going to feel like **** . hope that helps
2006-10-28 17:36:54
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answered by italia_rox_06 1
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souds like they think your a geek! i dont but some ppl are rude! i wish here was some way i COULD help but there isnt. dont try to hang out with them try to make other friend and dont make any dates untill you realy know them ok?!
2006-10-28 17:43:19
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answered by Anonymous
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lol cuz u have feelings? and the part of ur brain that controlls spelling by missing desu~~~.
2006-10-28 17:37:55
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answered by lol 1
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u should really try being a loner,,its eaiser that way
2006-10-28 17:55:20
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answered by native,pride 5
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