i feel really messed up,idk wtf is wrong help me?

Question

im 13 yrs old, my dads on drugs i nevr c him nd my gf cheated on me but apologized nd i jus dnt kno wut to do.i feel really stupid nd embrassed askin this question so dnt do stupid stuf w/it. i jus rly need sumone to tell me wut i should do,help me ne one
thnx-seth

Answer 1

There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you!
13 is a tough age for everybody!
I am so sorry about your dad. I hope he can get help.
Your girlfriend cheated on you.
Hey, you know what? Get another girlfriend!
If you are just really crazy about this girl, you can chose to give her another chance. But she will probably do it again.
I say, forget about girls for now. (Yeah, right, at 13?)
Concentrate on school, or any hobby you have.
Get into something that is totally yours.
You don't have to be the best at it, just do your best at it.
singing? guitar? piano? karate? math? school? sports?
Maybe you could cut grass for your neighbors?
Maybe volunteer to help at your local YMCA, or at your local church?

You need something to do.


I feel for you, my young friend.

Answer 2

sometimes there is nothing that you can do about the actions of other people. you can't help that your dad is on drugs. however, that is a very dangerous situation for you to be in and you need to tell someone about it. even though some people have children, unfortunately you can't force them to be parents. since he's on drugs, it's probably better that you don't see him right now anyway. everyone goes through a relationship where they get cheated on. broken hearts are just part of life. they make you grow and hopefully you learn from your mistakes in that past. don't feel stupid, things like this happen to everyone. the only thing you can do is keep your head up and make up your mind that you are going to turn out better than your father.

Answer 3

first of all dont feel stupid about askin this question you need someone to talk to because obviously the people who you thought would always be there for you arent.

im 14 and have kind of been in the same situation but it was my boyfriend who took drugs and he also cheated on me, so i know how you feel.

i think what you should do is tell your dad and tell him how you feel, if you really dont want to do that then ask another adult you know to approach him, maybe they could tell your dad how his drug taking is making affecting you. this will make him realise the situation yu are in and maybe this will encourage him to stop. but dont expect too much because getting clean from drugs is very hard.

about your girl - ditch her. she cheated on you, maybe she apologised but it seems to me that even though you might of forgiven her that you still feel betrayed. so let her go, find someone who respects you and doesnt take you for granted

hope this helps you, if it doesnt or if you just need someone to talk to add me on msn - [e-mail]

Answer 4

You feel that way, but truly you have to appreciate yourself for not being like your dad or your gf. Move on, concentrate on your schooling, goals for the future. You have learned a lot about people and what not to be like. You don't have to look badly upon yourself. You are innocent in all that you mentioned. Give yourself a high 10, and give up the other stuff. It is beneeth you!

Answer 5

ok...

ur 13 years old....forget the he.ll about girls and drugs (just incase you get onto them)

focus on your studies, do really well in school, get into a good college, and you will have a great life when you grow up.

that is the only thing you should do right now FORGET about everything else.

i know it's not a good solution for ur life right now but if you don't put 100% of your focus in education your life will be messed up until u die.

Answer 6

if your dad is on drugs, then he is not a good role model so I would try and distant myself away from him,....so you wont get hurt cause most drug addicts will choose thier drug over anyone or anything.As far as the girlfriend thing well you are young and there are other fish in the sea so don't waste your time with someone who already hurt you, if you forgive them and give them another chance, then they will think you will do it again and again so dont waste your time.

Answer 7

you know ive been in the same thing for5 years and im only 11 dont let it get in youre head

Answer 8

First of all, you need to tell the police about your dad!

Answer 9

I am so sorry for your pain. I do not know what to tell you ither than you are in my prayers. Please do not give up. Things will get better.

Answer 10

Find a trust worhty counselor at school or church!!!