I've been attracted to them for as long as i can remember, but why do people have such a problem with that? It's really annoying...
2006-10-28 09:57:22 · 21 answers · asked by Alex K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't care what any other person thinks about your preference, or anything else for that matter. This is not something that deserves an explanation, it's just the way you like it, and I think it's great. You sound like a good person.
2006-10-28 10:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by june clever 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I used to date a white guy (I'm married to a beautiful black man now) and whenever we went out anywhere, some people had the nerve to ask me why I was with him and came up with outlandish reasons, like, 'he's giving her money' or 'she wants to be white'. I had no idea what inter-racial couples went through until that experience. In some peoples' minds, their worlds are split into black and white. They can't see across the racial divide. When these blinded people see someone dating outside of their race, they see it as the person going over to the other team or something. They see the person's color and not the person, so it's hard for them to understand. Don't let it bother you.
2006-10-28 10:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm black ... and i have dated white men as well as black guys they are the same we are all people..,,, White men usually get attracted to me.. And i had problems both with the white community as well as the black community.... I don't know why but i guess everyone has there own taste I don't see anything wrong with dating anyone u like,,.. For so long i was asked why i was dating my ex-bf.. and i later found out people were just looking at him as a white guy.. It didn't really bother me .. U should not get bothered as well..
2006-10-28 10:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a point. you shouldn't have to explain your attraction to anyone, it is annoying. i've been attracted to black men for awhile now and hooked up with some. every time i would be with one i would get dirty looks from black women, white women, or any other race. everyone needs to realize that times have changed color is not a factor any more
2006-10-28 10:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only woman you have to explain your attraction to is the one you want in your life. She needs to hear why you are attracted to her and why you want to be with her. Ignore the other people. Everyone always thinks they know what it right for other people. Let it go, learn to laugh about them. Follow your heart.
2006-10-28 10:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not explain you attraction to anybody. Don't let some single and narrow minded people tell you how to live you life. Have fun and live you life to the fullest forget everyone else.
2006-10-28 10:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not have to explain anything to anyone. Your taste is your taste and that is it! When someone asks you, ask them why the like other type of women.......and that is it. Or just say,,,just because ...or just give them all the details you want!!!!! If anyone has a problem with it........that is not your problem. Live happy and for get about the world judgement................. BE YOU!!!!
2006-10-28 10:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by scorpionbeat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to explain anything. I felt guilty for being so attracted to white women. But I shouldn't feel guilty at all, it's just what I like. I like all women, but white and hispanic chicks just have me hynotized.
2006-10-28 10:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to explain yourself to anyone. The people who have a problem with are just ignorant and have nothing better to do.
2006-10-28 10:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to explain your attraction. You can't choose who you find attractive, let alone defend why you find someone attractive.
2006-10-28 10:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋