What do men think of Women who u sleep with on the 1st date?

Question

Do men have a better opinon of Women who make them wait or do you guys prefer women who just get down and dirty on the 1st date?
I was had trouble with this one personally

This Q is not about me! i have always thought that men think you easy if you sleep with them on the 1st date. However sometimes you both can't help yourselfs

Answer 1

It makes very little difference in my opinion of them...

Answer 2

You seem to really want answers from men, but you might need some from women. It's not what they think of you but who you are and what you want to do at the time. You can expect them to dog you unless they are looking for a long term mate. Then they'll probably move on. If they stick around, they will probably be excessively possessive and jealous and even abusive. It isn't about you being a loose woman, it's about you being a free person. Sorry, very few are programed to appreciate that and it can backlash on you years in the future even if you agree to and live up to a fidelity arrangement. It's the way most of them seem to be hardwired. Of course they love a gal whose down and dirty from the first. They are often very lazy about achieving their goals. The real Q is are you a down and dirty girl, and if so, are you going to stay that way, or are you just trying to snag somebody. Just be true to yourself, protect yourself, and if you get into something too fast, be ready to say or accept goodbye. You may even have to deal with a stalker.

Answer 3

well i never slept with anyone on the first the date until i met my husband we did on the first night we went out but we knew each other for a long time before we slept together then and are now. the best thing though is to wait you don't want to be known as easy that's a no-brainer! Because the guys will talk you don't need to give yourself that name. that image in the longrun ruins you think of all the girls you look at and say " she's such a ho she's been around" so on and etc!

Answer 4

Yep. I've had a 2 year and a 3 year relationship where we had sex on the first date.

Answer 5

some man just like to get the women's in bed and f*** and then leave them and don't talk to them for a couple of weeks or months.and some man just cant wait to get laid any woman they see that look good they just want to have sex some women have hiv,aids and lots more.and he went in bed he catch it and they don't even know until he find out that something is wrong. and it's not just the men have aids,hiv women,men,boys,girls have it especailly the teenager. because they just do it bc it is fun and then they used the wrong condom a condom that's not strong enough. and they having sex it rip and then catch all kind of desaese in her/him penis or virgina my name is jaime d and am a boy ok!! but anyways aka halla at yuh boyyyyy!!!!!

Answer 6

If you have any thought's of marriage and a future with the guy, never sleep with him on the first date or even the third for that matter.

Answer 7

Personally it doesnt effect my outlook on a person. If a guy can sleep with a girl on the first date and not be a s**t then why cant a girl do the same?

Answer 8

I think you are the type of woman someone goes on a first date with and gets some and then never calls you again,

Answer 9

If a man is looking for a serious relation, I don't think he would stay with someone that he had sex with on the first date. The question that would come to his mind is, does she do it with everyone that she has had a date with?

Answer 10

It depends on what we are looking for. If we are looking for a wife-to-be, then no we do not expect her to put out on the first date. Yes we want her to put out on the first date, that's what's in most all of our minds when we introduce ourself to the woman.

"Hello, my name is Chris, what's your name?" is what is said... but what we're thinking is, hello, my name is Right Now! I don't care what your name is, you are hot and I want to get you in bed right now!"

That's our hormones. I'm speaking for the men with hearts. "Like me!" Real men, want to get in the sack on the first date, but respect the fact that we didn't, and it makes us want her more, thus the second date.

I like passionate women and I usually date women of my age or a little older. I'm 36 now. I've always liked older women because they told me what they wanted and I was able to please them. No games, just things like this... "Look I know you want me, and it's not secrete I want you too. So let's cut through all the BS and just tell each other what we are looking for right now. OK?"

So if I'm looking for a fun night out. I tell her. But if she looks like something I would want to wake up to every morning, I let her know. I want to get to know her a little better before we jump each other's bones, unless she feels comphortable going all the way now.

It's called communication. Don't be scared to let him know what you want. If you are a passionate woman, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. If you are looking for a meaningfull relationship, COMMUNICATE!

Answer 11

depends on the woman, and how long l have know her. if it happens, it happens because the both of you want it to. l do not judge a woman for wanting to sleep with a guy on the first date.