This guy at my work is real nice, cute, always smiling and well liked. Well, lately, he keeps making these crazy comments to me. Like he doesnt care that im married and he wants to go out. i politely tell him i am married and no, but he keeps bothering me. Finally, i got rude. Now, hes writing me rude letters saying im being snobby and he private called my house last night at 3am and called my husband an a55hole and hung up!! It had tobe him. (he got my # from the phone book) Should i go to Human Resourses asap or just see if he does it again then say something to them? It doesnt seem to be bothering my husband much, so i dunno.
2006-10-28 09:48:43 · 4 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I doubt he'll STALK me, but I do beleive he will do it again.
2006-10-28 09:57:38 · update #1
Sounds like a piece of shite.
I would probably talk to HR to at least give them a heads up.
Therefore if something happens again you already have a leg to stand on if anything hits the fan.
2006-10-28 11:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a pig for even trying to move in on a married lady. Whats that tell you about his morals! Go to HR and report his disgusting a55
2006-10-28 16:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe this is what's called a "poisoned work environment." It's sexual harassment, and you should definitely go to HR for it. Why isn't your husband bothered by this? I'd think he'd want to kick your co-worker's a-ss.
2006-10-28 20:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to HR ASAP. This guy is harassing you and it could become much worse really quickly. You know what a stalker is? I think you have one. Please be careful.
2006-10-28 16:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋