2006-10-28 09:47:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just do it!
2006-10-28 09:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
As a real boyfriend, he should be capable of understanding that you may be at a different state of mind and such than him. That you're different. He should be respectable and patient enough to do so. If not, than that means he has no self-control over himself and no respect, and if he has no self-control for sexuality and no respect, I'm sorry but then he's really not one to stay with. If you talk to him about this, in these simple yet firm terms, and he understands, great. If not, immediate take off from him! Period.
2006-10-28 16:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how old are you? If your boyfriend tries to "get in your pants" and you tell him no and he still insists.........dump him. Hold on to what you got girl.....there are tons of guys out there wanting to get in a girls pants......but just a few that will respect your desire not to until you're ready...good luck and hang on
2006-10-28 16:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Melody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight-up with him and tell him that you are not ready. That way there will be no grey area where he might get the idea that you want to go further. Be safe.
2006-10-28 16:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf is a selfish jerk.. and sorry but i guess he doesn't care enough for u or even respects u .. if he truly loves you he would have respect 4 ur decision..And he would wait until u r ready.. Not get into ur pants forcefully... Girl get some respect and leave him he is not worth it .....
2006-10-28 16:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not ready. If he pushes, you may have to just dump him. And if he pulls that old "you would if you loved me" crapola, run do not walk far away. If he doesn't respect your feelings, he's a loser and you'd just end up being another notch on his gun.
2006-10-28 16:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out hon. Boys think that once they got you where they want you, you are putty in their hands. If he keeps insisting I would dump him. My guess is once he gets what he wants, he'll soon tire and move on. That's the way those types of boys are.
2006-10-28 16:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him no, and if he cannot respect your decision get rid of him because that is all he wants. Move on and finds someone who likes you for you and not just wanting to have sex with you.
2006-10-28 17:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him.
Tell him no, that you would like to wait a little while longer.
Just tell him when you're ready, you'll be ready.
He'll understand.
2006-10-28 16:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you might have a yeast infection, he will run. Or if you want to keep him, tell him that you need to keep your own values, and you aren't ready.
2006-10-28 17:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly cares about about you and your feelings,then if you tell him you aren't ready he should respect that and he should wait...and you will be happy to know that he does care about your feelings.
2006-10-28 16:51:59 · answer #11 · answered by gabby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋