If a guy keeps on eyeing you and making intanse eye contact why does he not come over say hi run out of his store and get it over with why do guys resist I mean this guy has been eyeing me for months its so damn intense why does he not do something what is he waiting for???
2006-10-28 09:46:56 · 17 answers · asked by Fuck off 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most men are so use to being rejected they are reluctant to approach without some sort of sign that the women is open to an approach.
I am not bragging, when I was in my 30s I was popular, didn't get turned down that much, but I still hated rejection, and didn't approach some because of fear of rejection. Women hold the key, and are use to rejecting men. have a man reject a women, and we become jerks! It is a double slandered
2006-10-28 09:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say hi my name is etc. I have no idea what that guy wants, unless he is a predator or somethig. or he's waiting for the right time to approach. or he just have lazy eyes. for months, that's a record because I don't think I can make eye contacts for months only for seconds and talk to people at parties or some events.
2006-10-28 09:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just like that if your interested that's a sign for you to approach, Or you'll just keep wondering, I mean come on that's kind of a good sign you know you wouldn't have any problems with him in the future with him trying to approach another.
2006-10-28 09:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, historically women laugh at guys that ask them out if they say no. But even if that were not the case, how bad would you feel if you asked someone out and they told you no. It's pretty demoralizing. That is probably why. It's embarrassing to be told no..especially in front of others.
2006-10-28 09:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the eyeing has been so intense why don't you calm things down a bit by talking to the guy, preferably in a very social setting.
....or are you also afraid?
2006-10-28 09:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by abcde_s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps hes got a lazy eye, or a glass one. Id go and ask him before thinking he is shy and waiting for you.
2006-10-28 10:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you looked in the mirror lately? If I was 25 yrs. younger I wouldn't approach you either.
2006-10-28 10:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach him! Take the initiative and speak to him and ask him "whats up".
2006-10-28 09:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by cyncase007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him cause hes shy.
2006-10-28 09:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by Aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes shy, like me.
2006-10-28 09:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋