If a man you met 4 months ago, who asked you to marry him after 2 weeks, who you had not seen for a week, tonight cancelled a date because he was too tired. (offered lunch on sunday)
(We have planned a big holiday to Singapore / Dubai in 10 days; Ive paid for flights already)
2006-10-28 09:36:39 · 20 answers · asked by cate 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Has he paid for his flight ticket, or did you do that?
He did offer you an alternative. He must have been tired, after work. Its sounds as though you do need to date him some more before agreeing to marriage. I would take my time and enjoy the time you get with him and see if hes the one. But don't be too quick to jump to conclusions.
2006-10-28 09:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by ANGEL-T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust a man who asks a girl to marry him after two weeks. Four months are a very short time to get to know a person. Don't get too passionate that you lose all sense of judgment.
2006-10-28 16:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in this guy, give him another chance to go out, but definitely don't get married yet. Marriage is the greatest responsibility and it is better to know if he is the right person. Do not rush.
2006-10-28 16:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by gil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have gone over board - if you have paid for the flight, who's money did you use?
2006-10-28 16:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to wait 2 weeks isnt enough time to get married.
2006-10-28 16:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by Aj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U paid for the flights? He aint a golddigger is he?
2006-10-28 16:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by poshnosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay the £25 pound at the airport and change the name on his ticket to mine and me and you can have a serious chat about men like him...while having a good old girlie holiday!!!
2006-10-28 16:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by secret_smile4u_only 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it not looking good but who knows men are strange creachers but marrage NO I think give it at least a year.
2006-10-28 16:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend you crazy!!! Why did you pay for the flights? Get your head sorted girlfriend
2006-10-28 16:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by MGN2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not make any serious decisions at the very moment. If I were you, I would have to think very hard about everything and then follow your heart. Hopefully, if he is in fact the one, then you will have no doubt about it.
2006-10-28 16:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by cyncase007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋