I love my boyfriend and we live together- I sometimes choose to stay in when he goes out with his mates so I can chill out and have an early night, but find myself waiting up for him and spending the whole evening anxiously waiting for him to come home. In the end I don't relax at all. Any advice and suggestions are very welcome!
2006-10-28 09:29:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend has just gone out too. I am guna put a film on, get in my PJs and snuggle on the couch. Dont worry about it and enjoy your alone time!
2006-10-28 09:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by AJay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember what that was like and it wasn't that many decades ago (LOL). Ok, maybe two. My point is, be reasonable with yourself and re-read your question. In it you are clear about the fact that she has a BF and many potential suitors following her around. Before you speak to her, you need to make yourself understand that the amount of feelings you have for her, may not be how she feels about you. You may be looking for "steady", she may only want a little bit of fun. I would hate for you to get hurt, especially since you seem to care so deeply. Lastly, know one thing, even the most dense girl can tell when a guy likes her, if she didn't make the first move (even at 15) she may see you only as a friend. Just brew on these things before you stick your neck out. If you decided you are going to tell her...well, then I wish you the best of luck. If you decide not to tell her, I suggest you find something fun to do that will occupy as much of your time, until she is just a memory. This should help a little with any pain or emotional uneasiness. Much Luck, Silkbod
2016-05-22 03:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself out of the routine "waiting up for him", have a few friends over and have a drink in the house, your still chilling out and your BF is still going out but with you havin company the time will go by faster and you won't have time to think about what he is doing.
I know how you feel when you bf goes out, I can't sleep until my bf is in bed beside me, I suppose it;s just the way things go when you are in a relationship.
2006-10-28 09:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being jealous for no reason. If you want to push him away from you, start giving him a hard time about imaginary girls that exist only in your head. Let him have some freedom and a good time with his friends. He lets you go out with your friends, doesn't he? You're just being insecure. Trust him more. If you've no reason to doubt him and he's never cheated before, don't sweat it.
2006-10-28 09:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG- and here I thought I was the only one who feels this way... You are not alone. It's normal. Sounds like you have a healthy relationship because he does invite you to go out right? You just chose to stay home... Kind of like me. Don't worry- as long as he's not cheating on you, I would rest peacefully. I know it's hard but that's the only thing we could do. *sniff*sniff*
2006-10-28 09:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the bf. Some I never worried about and some I have not. If you really trust him then try and relax, if you don't then thats not a very good sign. Trust your gut.
2006-10-28 09:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with girlfriends at the same time, maybe after you tend to your personal needs for relaxation?
2006-10-28 09:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a aparnoid wreck about things like that so I sympathise...if he's late from the shops I think he's sleeping wi the checkout girl!!! The truth of the matter is that I'm more likely to 'wander' off so maybe I'm projecting it onto him!!!
2006-10-28 09:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by secret_smile4u_only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none at all in a way ive done it babe. exactly same. i suppose you have to try and learn to trust before you can relax and if your the type of sensitive person you are its hard trust im talking from experience but it causes arguments if they wanna go out.
2006-10-28 09:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by angelalways 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess if u do let him go out with his mates, what is the problem? if ur not comfterble with it then u dont trust him. if u have trust then u shouldnt worry what happens to him. its ok to feel anxious but not all the time. in this case trust is the key
2006-10-28 09:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋