That thinks it is really funny how some of the people ask if a person like them or not? Like we would really know over the internet, plus why can't they pick up signs, usually it is pretty obvious, besides all that ultimately if they really want to know they are going to have to ask anyway.
2006-10-28 09:03:27 · 19 answers · asked by sweetsmile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, that's become one of my pet peeve questions here...you see it more than 'does size matter' (but that's probably because there are so many minors here)...
To those who ask that question:
There's no way strangers online can tell you if someone likes you...your description of their words behavior is also likely to be colored by your desire (or lack of) to have them like you, so it's likely we're not even getting the true story here...
Find something more important to ask, than "does s/he like me"...you'll find out the answer to that question in time, yourself, and what we say won't have ANY bearing on it...
2006-10-28 09:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well you sound like you are perspective and that is a great trait to have and you are blessed. I also possess that trait and am thankful, but there are some individuals that can't pick up signs or have the ability to ask.
I have seen men buy an expensive ring and ask a women to marry her only to be told, no. I have seen women read so much into a relationship but it was mostly in her imagination.
Yes, it would be and is difficult to reply to this types of questions over the Internet but I think what these individuals are truly looking for is affirmation that it could be possible.
We all have an Achilles' heel
2006-10-28 16:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by freemansfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone can pick up on the signs plus sometimes the "signs" they get may not really mean what they think they mean. They just want advice on what others think.
2006-10-28 16:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only 100% effective way of finding out, is by asking that person.
2006-10-28 16:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not the only one.
but i dont feel funny about it, coz some people are really in love with the other person, up untill they start to imagine that the other person like them. every normal action or gesture might looks as if that person is in love with you, though otherwise.
2006-10-28 16:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by arnold saliang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, what those people are searching for is a little bit courage. They need to hear it from someone else that they should give it a try... What they want is a little push so they can gather their courage and tell to people who they like what they think.
2006-10-28 16:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by bogus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are right .I know the reason that some people ask these kinda Q.It is because they have low self confidence and trying to find some by asking other people.
2006-10-28 16:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they know whether the other person likes them or not but I think it is a round about way of getting feedback from another person and also it helps to reinforce what they are feeling...yeah it can seem like a duh moment but I kinda humor them when that happens.
2006-10-28 16:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first, it was funny, but now it's just plain annoying. I mean if you can't pick up 'crush vibes' on your own, then you don't desearve them.
2006-10-28 16:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just shy kids asking for reinforcement.
2006-10-28 16:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by stick man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋