My ex-girlfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago. This was our second break up. She was pretty heart-broken over it. I really loved her but there was some tension in the relationship so we both agreed to take a "break." We had previously dated cumulatively for well over a year and almost got married but didn't. I have only seen her for a couple of short instances over the past couple of months. I just recently found out that she's been hanging out with another guy. Honestly, the thought of her spending time with another guy, or another guy flirting with her almost makes me sick to my stomach. I think that at this point she's pretty much given up hope on our having a relationship. I don't don't want to lead her on again only to cause her problems but I guess that I am a little jealous that this other guy is giving her attention. Do ya'll have any good internet articles that might relate to this or have any advice as to when to completely give up on a relationship
2006-10-28 09:02:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Send her flowers every week, a dozen red roses, and Godiva Chocolates.
2006-10-28 09:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any internet articles but I do have some advice. I will inform you ahead of time that you may not like it and that it will be hard. I get the feeling from all that you have said that you love this girl/woman and that is why this will be hard to do, but it is possible! Since she is apparently moving on, so should you. You never know what may happen. If by chance she wants to start seeing you again~don't date her exclusively. I think that you both need to date others until you both decide what/who you really want. Best of luck to you!
2006-10-28 16:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Donna J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already established a pattern of breaking up and getting back together. You break up because the relationship isn't working out. You get back together because you are lonely and it's comfortable. Not good reasons. If a relationship is to work. there are no break-ups. Once you break up you need to move on. She's with someone else and you need to move on as well.
2006-10-28 16:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This problem’s solution is quite simple. You do not want to date her but you don’t any one else to date her either. You really need to let this girl go and simply stay out her life.
Perhaps, if you had someone in your life, you wouldn’t be swaying back and forth on whether or not to hook up with her again. What you call jealousy is really just you being selfish.
You seem like a nice guy so act like one. Stay out of her life…
2006-10-28 16:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry I don't but I hope u find some. But my friend had the same problem all u really need is some fun. Grab one of ur best friends and just have a party! Make sure u always have a shoulder to cry on!
good luck!
2006-10-28 16:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Joe & Nick Lover ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feelings for her, and you are jealous of her, then i think there is still a spark. You either do or u don't.. There can't be an in between. So I would suggest, you do some should searching and make up your mind fast, before it's too late. If you're on this questions and answers asking us what we think.. You must still have feelings for her.
2006-10-28 16:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really like her that much you should buy her a gift and whatever you're doing to her that she broke up with you stop doing it because then she would never come back to you.Try talking to the parents about this and tell them that you really want her back.
2006-10-28 16:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by MAF1113 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one easy way , and you will find many many articles and advice is to go to a search engine such as google, dogpile or anyof them just type in WHEN TO GIVE UP ON A RELATIONSHIP.
you will be amazed at what you get. try it. good luck. above all dont beat yourself up so bad over it...your not alone.
2006-10-28 16:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if oyu really love her. You have to make a move fast because this other guy is trying to get her, but I wouldn't lead her on.
2006-10-28 16:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both very young and immature. It might be best to chalk it up to experience. Obviously you guys are not ready for serious relationships yet.
2006-10-28 16:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by the shadow knows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋