What should I Do?

Question

I am really depressed my father died and I'm taking care myself going to school and everything. Im jus 16 and sometimes I jus don't want to live any more i think im a burden 2 everyone.What should I do

Answer 1

You really can never be a burden to anyone. If you die as well, you'll become an even bigger burden to your family. There's a lot you can do to make your father happy even when he is dead, and among one of those things is to work hard in life and be successful. He's watching you from up there and I'm sure that's what he would want out of you. If you give up in life, how do you think your father will feel about it? You've got a lot to gain if you stay in it, but everything in the world to lose if you decide to quit and give up.

Answer 2

I Dont Think Ur A burden 2 Anyone And If U Are Then So Wat I Think Ur Father Would Want The Best 4 U. Which Is 2 Live Ur Life 2 The Fullest Dont Let Anything Stop U And If U Cant Do That 4 Ur Self Then Do It 4 Your Father. When U Get Older Ur Going 2 B A Strong Person And That A Blessing And Thats Also Something Cant No One Take From U But U. Just Hang N There Continue 2 Go 2 School And Do Ur Thing Everything Is Going 2 B Ok Just Remember Life Aint Easy But U Cant Let Hard Times Stop U

Answer 3

I am so sorry for you. The same thing happened to me when I was 22. I was crying day and night when my dad passed away. Because you are only 16, I can understand how painful it is. You are not a burden to everyone. I suggest you live with your relative or someone close to you. Don't be so lonely and depressed for long time. And the most important thing is finishing your high school and going to college so that you don't have to depend on anyone.

Answer 4

I do not think that you are a burden to everyone. A lot of people understand your situation, Is your family supportive? Do you have true friends that you can talk to and hang out with? I think that you should take it one day at a time, that is all you can do. I have friends who have both of their parents and they do everything for themselves. I wish you the best in the future, and just try to enjoy life, and take the good with the bad. I think that this experience will definitely make you stronger, esp for your future children.

GOD BLESS!!!!!

Answer 5

I understand the loss....My father died about 7 years ago, but I was 22 and just out of college. You have it tougher being 16 with school and work too I bet.

The pain of loss never goes away....in fact I am crying right now.....but your life will get better and you will succede in life. Just lean on friends for support.....If I can do anythng to help yoiu can IM me though answers.

Peace......

Answer 6

Please dont feel that you dont want to live anymore , that would hurt your father , and the rest of your family , I lost my dad too and i had a nervous breakdown , it was a really bad time in my life , but the burden wasn't me it was the death that could not be helped we all have a time to go and we cant choose that time unless we go against Gods plans for our lives . and you dont need to do that , just work hard , do well in school , and talk to your family , and maybe a pastor , do you have a church you attend or anything , if not go to a counsler. do what you have too but please dont think of ending your life , you are so young and you have a chance to do alot with your life , finish what your dad started , carry on with your life , and make your family and yourself proud , you will be stronger because of it , I will remember you in my prayers and your family too . things will get better , please PRAY , PRAY , PRAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

youre not a burden. the people around you are affected by this too, so everybody is acting weird. get together with your family, try to spend time together. its good that youre taking care of yourself, youll mature faster that your peers and will develop skills. youll be more independant and more able to succeed. concentrate in school and friends too, go to parties, activities, etc.

Answer 8

I'm so sorry to hear about your Father. It sounds like you love him very much. Please do not feel like you are a burden on anyone! There are many good people in your life who want to help you through this hard time in your life...... let them!! If you are a burden, then they would not offer their help. Please, except them! They are offering you their heart and their love.

Answer 9

It is hard .I know but you are a grown guy now and you can take care of yourself.Do not give up.God Bless you.

Answer 10

well it is hard so take time and finish grieving, and then do what you have to do to finish school and go to college