I was going out with this guy for about a year, and I seriously thought we were pefect. He was my best friend, I told him everything. And he was so sweet to me.
One day we got in this huge fight over something so stupid and I guess we both let it get to our heads so we broke up.
When we first broke up, it was kind of awkward but now about a month later, I hang out with him all he time and hes one of my best friends still.
We were so close, so of course I still have feelings for him. And he does for me too I think because he's always flirting and hinting that he still likes me but hes not a very direct person and if you asked him a question he wouldn't give a direct answer.
I don't know what to say to him about the whole situation because we're over the awkward stage of the breakup and I don't want to make it awkward again. But I also am sick of being lonely and wanting him so much. I don't really know what to do.
2006-10-28 09:01:10 · 23 answers · asked by taylor =) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like him, then go and tell him that you still love him and that you wanna start dating him again. Theres no way to find out apart from asking him.
2006-10-28 09:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first, according to your picture you are much too pretty and much too young to worry about being lonely. Now, down to business. You absolutely need to talk to him about it. You just said you told him everything.....just not yet I suppose. lol it sounds by your description, that he seems absolutely the one for you. Anyone that you can call your best friend, has to be. There is one thing...now that you've been there don't let anything change from how it is right now. If you guys continue to be best friends, even during your relationship, then don't let that change. That will keep you guys honest, loving and having a good time together. Never forget that.
2006-10-28 09:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a moment to figure it out for yourself, then you have a discussion with him cause if you two are better friends than in a relationship then that's where it should be kept. Remember boys come and go, but good friends can last a lifetime:) Good luck
2006-10-28 09:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by krazydavina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him, make it known, one of you has to do something positive, if he won't , then you do it, heck! if it fails, then at least you can say that you gave it a second go, if it works, well, guess, you will be a bit busy for a few days to let us know how you got on !!! Good Luck.
2006-10-28 10:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by learned_old_sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He like to have your presence but not obligated to you,who doesn't want that?...as i see your picture you are a gorgeous girl and i am pretty sure you won't be alone too long if you give up on him,be brave,if you are looking for something serious he is not the one,get on with your life!
2006-10-28 09:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might he find it easier to be direct and honest after a few beers/glasses of wine? Then broach the subject gently, and play it by ear. You have to at least try, don't you? Otherwise you'll be wondering in 30 years "what if....?"
2006-10-28 09:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him about it- don't let the moment pass!
I don't think playing games or keeping quiet will make things any easier... if this guy is worth it don't be shy- be yourself always and tell him how you feel!
2006-10-28 09:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him even if it means at the end of the day he may not still feel the same at least you can get your closure and try to move on .
2006-10-28 09:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by dirtygrl_4_u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dont ive just read your question and going through exactly same thing but ive had to move an hour away from him with my daughter who sees him as her dad and loves him dearly. i go bak home and we are so close them come bak to my home now and ed battered. hard work lots of complications hopefully you wont have as many and manage to sort it out. hope you do good luck babe.
2006-10-28 09:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by angelalways 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop a few hints that you like someome else and see his reaction. If he gets all jealous, he really likes you and wants you for himself, if eggs you on to go for it he justs wants to stay friends. Thats my advice anyway xx
2006-10-28 09:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by paulcartwheel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋