They have absolutely no reason to distrust me.
2006-10-28 08:58:23 · 10 answers · asked by d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
time to call family meeting! sit down with your parents and tell them you would like to discuss the issue, and maybe come to some agreeable compromises. Be ready to point out how responsible you are, trustworthy, etc. Compliment
them by letting them know you are a good child because they are good parents. tell them you want a little freedom to be the person they raised. list the freedoms you are asking for and discuss them one by one. If they won't budge on something, ask for a time limit to prove you deserve what you are asking for.
they'll be impressed with your maturity, i'm sure!
remember, when you get older, you will appreciate their strictness because their guidance will be what makes you the adult you become! Its also a show of how much they love and care for you. you are lucky!
2006-10-28 09:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by kimandchris2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to slowly convince them to let you have some freedom. Invite a good friend over and let them meet her. Then see if you can go to her house. Have your parents call her parents, if necessary. Do the same thing with a boy you like. Invite him over to play a board game or watch TV. Let your parents get used to him. Then see if they will let you go somewhere for a couple of hrs with him. A lot depends on your age, too. Get good grades in school so they can see that you are not going to behave badly.
Someday you will be very glad you had parents like yours and not parents who let their kids run wild and get into trouble. And you will raise your kids the same way.
2006-10-28 09:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i couldn't. i wasn't even allowed out the front door on my own when i was 16. i was at collage and working at 16 so dad kicked me out. that did not get me my freedom though as i moved in with a fella that had kids so i went from a prisoner to my dad to a prison of the kids oh joy of joys. good luck
2006-10-28 09:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by angela c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show them your maturity. Talk to them maturely and have a plan. If there is something you want to do have a plan for it and give them your plan...ask them what they think about it and be mature enough to handle their answers. They may be against you at first, but give them time to think about it and talk to them again. Always show your maturity and be responsible with everything you do so you have a righteous leg to stand on. Communication is key.
2006-10-28 09:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie_6234 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get your parents on Wife Swap and hope the new person to visit you for 2 weeks will allow you more freedom. It works on TV, why not for you? :)
2006-10-28 09:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How old are you? What kind of freedom are you desiring that you do not have?
2006-10-28 09:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask for help from someone your parents trust, respect or admire.
Good luck to you...
2006-10-28 09:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell do everything you can to make them distrust you. what are they gonna do kick you out? **** if they kick you out its so easy to get an apartment cause there so cheap these days. thats what i would do just dont get in trouble with the law.
2006-10-28 09:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
it depends on your age. in the meantime, remain trustworthy.
2006-10-28 09:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until you're grown you'll be in that situation.
2006-10-28 09:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋