Hello.
I'm here to get advice..
I live in a condo, there is a really hot, curvy, hispanic woman the lives 2 doors down, in her 40ies. I am 20.
I was always looking, not staring at her.. and she always winked at me. She is one of those woman that you just want to stare at, front or back.
Yesterday, I came from work around 8, she just brought in laundy from the basement, so her door was opened, I looked in and she was wearing tight pants, with a top.. I could't help it, I just stopped a looked 'in'..
She saw me, .. She asked me to come in, and she said something along the lines of 'I know you like me, want to have some fun?'..
We had amazing sex... Best I ever had. (Playing, bed, shower, back to bed.. )
Now I dont really know how to feel, is she like my woman now?
Thanks
2006-10-28 08:53:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would ask her. Sex does not mean a relationship has been established.
Ask her out for a NICE dinner, make her feel special and well cared for... show up with flowers and talk to her about your feelings (most women love that). Then ask her...
best of luck!
2006-10-28 08:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by redheadedcyclone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are that she was just wanting to have sex but you never know. Go to her and ask her out on a real date and she will probably say yes. Take it from there. Technically she is not your woman but she might become your woman. You never know she might be a slut or have no sense of humor. You have to get to know her first. Also I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and for the first 2 months of our relationship it was strictly sex so for anyone that tells you that you ruined it for having sex too soon they are mistaken.
2006-10-28 09:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by angel l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, maybe you should wait and see how she acts towards you for the next couple of days. Some times women are just interested in playing and other times they want a relationship, seeing the difference in ages, you guys just might be friends with benefits, or it could have just been a one time thing, I wouldn't expect anything right away, wait and see how things go from now on and see how she acts towards you.
2006-10-28 08:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by hargonagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask this Q from yourself. Do you wanna begin a relationship with this woman or is it just sex and after a while bye bye ? Is she kinda woman you manna be with ? or Is she interested in you in any other way or she is just there to have sex with you . You have to figure out yourself. I would say she is much older and wiser than you.
2006-10-28 08:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably been around the block a few times, so do get your heart too caught up into her....By some condoms and ride the wave when ever it presents itself...
2006-10-28 08:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Have some fun though. She can teach you to be a great lover!!! Not only that but, you never know....it could be like Demi and Ashton!!!
2006-10-28 08:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by lbacig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you feel something for her or is it just a physical attraction? Maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel, or maybe it was just a one night stand. Well whatever you do it's fine just don't get hurt.
2006-10-28 09:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by lady butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your woman. Only the woman decides that, and you don't know what she's thinking.
Be respectful towards her, talk to her without looking desperate, and it will play out.
2006-10-28 09:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by justwebbrowsing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're really interested, than you should ask her out, and start to know each other better in order to get a real relationship,.
now if you don;t want her than stop talking to her, or seen her..
2006-10-28 09:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by PaZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is one of those life lessons. btw, nice life lesson, is she taking any more pupils? I'm kind of thinking this is a fling. But in the meantime, enjoy the experience.
2006-10-28 08:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋