I just came back from a date with my girlfriend. When we were kissing I've put my hand on her breasts, and at the begin she told me she likes it. But later on she also told me that she dislikes it. And yesterday we had fight because she was luying me. I'm not angry at her, just very disapointed because she always tells me something and at the end it comes out different> I felt very stupid because of that. Should I break up with her, or what should I tell her?
2006-10-28 08:52:27 · 5 answers · asked by Voda Voda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A little advice.....it sounds like your younger, let her make the first moves and you CHILL and play hard to get....even reluctant. Most likely you will get the desired result's. Sorry but love is like a chess game it is human nature.
2006-10-28 09:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have chemistry or good communication, or if you want things from the relationship that she won't give, then maybe you should find someone who better suits you. try not to fight, but just have a discussion about how the mixed messages make you feel. let her know that you don't want to make her uncomfortable but you tried to take another step because she said she was comfortable only to change her mind and make you feel like a jack ***. if she doesn't mind that she made you feel like a jack ***, and thinks she is justified in changing her mind like that, then def kick her to the curb, where this would be only the beginning of her antics.
2006-10-28 16:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is what you do,since its like that if you really like her and want to be with her you should be able to talk about anything and everything. tell her that the problem with her is that she says one thing and then says another. that is something i call leading a person on and thats not good in a relationship. if she is your girl then you should be albe to touch her wherever ans whenever ir she said so. she gave you permission to touch her because she said that she liked it. what i think you should do is break up with her because it seems like she doesnt know what she wants and there are plenty of woman out here who want a man to touch her and just be with her.
2006-10-28 16:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by vanillaswril 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her to be truthful when she talks to you and not to just say what she thinks you want to hear. Be sure to really listen to her answer, body language etc and tell her you are having a hard time understanding what she really likes and what she doesn't
2006-10-28 16:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by hargonagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know what the cool thing about getting older is? you suddenly realize that the truth is such a convenient tool for finding stuff out.
2006-10-28 15:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋