I am a single woman who has been single for about 5 years. I want to know why all of the men who I am attracted and who are attracted to me is either married or involved. I am not one to go after another woman's man, so I would never have a relationship with any of these men. i just want to know why these men are the one always coming into my life. Is it a test for me spiritual? Will I find someone for me who is single? Has anyone else had this problem?
2006-10-28 08:50:02 · 12 answers · asked by necca789 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You ask a good question. I've been without a boyfriend for years, and the men who come into my life are never right for me to have a relationship with, for one reason or another. What I do is try them on for size in my mind, that is, if the conditions were right, would I consider being in a relationship with them. This is a good way to get to know yourself, and the qualities in a man that are important to you. Fate is preparing you to meet someone who's right for you, that's why the wait is so long.
2006-10-28 08:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me you are not alone - I have been having the same problem and it's even happening in church. It's been a few years for me as well and I have pretty much given up in finding a single, unattached male. There are plenty of single men, but alot of them are either living with a woman or have too many to women to mention. I feel it's a test of your faith and it sounds like you are dealing with it quite well.
2006-10-28 09:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt like that for a long time. Like why? was this happening to me, why is everyone else aloud to be happy and find someone but me. Well It may be a spiritual test. One thing is I do admire you for not being involved with married men things like that. now a days women do to many crazy things for love. Also I can tell you to keep waiting men will come around they won't be the one. Keep waiting, do your thing and before you know it Your Man will come to you on his own! Love takes time........who said that?
2006-10-28 08:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you will find someone single, once you find yourself. Take it from me, it gets hard sometime because you get so lonely, butyou don't want to take the iniciative to be with another woman's husband. What you need to do is evaluate yourself. Maybe it is a test for you to be strong and wait for your husband. Patience can conquer a multitude of sorrows. If you just be patient and have faith that one day you will meet a man that will be drama and marraige free. Also, remember you are th eprize here. A man is supposed to find you so don't go looking for him. Maybe that's why these men keep coming in your life, because you let them in it.
2006-10-28 08:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by brina489 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont say how old you are. im single and have the same problem. maybe as we get older theres less men to choose from. Im sure there is somone out there got some more searching to do.
2006-10-28 08:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a very smart and intelligent woman, who has a high level of "problem solving abilities".
You unconsciously seek out problems, because your problem handling ability is so high, you are bored with too few problems.
Try taking on some more challenges instead.
2006-10-28 08:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't but know ones who have a real problem with that.
They are married and hopefully happy and they want to date her.
For multiple reasons this is not possible. But sometimes they insist and it is just crazy. I say go home to your wife.
2006-10-28 08:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've been thru it in the past.
We are tested sometimes, to see if we'll remain faithful to the Lord, concerning HIS will for our lives... & if we pass the test, we receive His BEST favors/blessings.
We tend to do things our own way, even to get into relationships that aren't meant to be.
He knows what/who is best for us... sometimes we're tested to see if we'll continue trusting Him to do what's best for us.
Just hang in there... He'll come thru for you.
GBU.
2006-10-28 09:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I noticed that you do not want to be e-mailed. But neither do I like discussing MY private and personal stuff on the open YAHOO ANSWERS forum.
However I have to cope with a similar situation to yours - BUT if you want me to give you my views about it, then you will have to write to me on my e-mail address ( maxalikhan@yahoo.com ), so I can reply to you directly.
2006-10-28 09:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you hang out? Try a different environment, maybe that will help.
2006-10-28 08:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by melissa l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋