i sometimes will talk and then run out of things to say, and say somethin like, hold on, or be right back, but what are someways to keep the conversation going
2006-10-28 08:47:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had the same problem, and always hated talking on the phone. Then one day I had the perfect idea. Play trivia! Movies, games, whatever! It'll be fun and will open up the conversation to an endless variety of subjects.
2006-10-28 08:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch the news or entertainment reports, what is hot in music. Fill yourself up with knowledge that interst "you". Why you? because we can tell if you are really intersted. We may not be intersted when you first speak but make us interested in your likes. You do not need to talk on the phone for more than a few minutes because when is busy he is more attractive. "Oh gee I have to go help a friemd, I have to finish this piece of art I am making etc etc. Awkward silenece....ask her all about her day and what she is doing. Women talk about everything from there dreams to waking up to her mother to her best friend, as a matter of fact there should be no time for silenece as she will do all the talking anyway. Make sure to remeber life is like a piece of pie and a gf or bf is just a slice no more or less. When you make it more than one piece then you will be unhappy.
Reading other responses here I disagree "avoid talking about your relationship at all costs" it can never end up positive your relationship should just grow and it does not grow by analyzing it now does it. If you went to a movie sure talk about it but do not try to break down how you feel inside or how she does as you can see all that if you open your eyes.
2006-10-28 08:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by laxthefacts 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Active listening, listen to what she has to say and ask her relevent questions about what she's says. Be genuinely interested in her point of view and she will talk your ear off all night long. Make sure she enjoys the conversation but you need to leave her wanting more. You should end the conversation at high point when it seems just a little too soon that way she will thinking about you and anticipating the next time you talk.
2006-10-28 08:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey you are dealing with what we all have one time or another experienced in life. If it gets quiet I make a comment about her., such as your eyes has a beautiful color of _______ in them, or look around and tell her how you feel about your surroundings. Ask her questions because she is probably worrying about the same thing and that gives you time, not much though, because you have to be able to listen and respond to her as well. Good luck buddy!!! I know you'll do just fine.
2006-10-28 08:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me see,it all depends how comfortable you really are with your girlfriend.if you are you can pretty much talk about everything with her,ask questions like how was your day?oh really say how your day was,and everything should come natural.if you have problems pick topics to talk about like the relationship, a show on TV or even the news.tell her something funny that happen to you that day so she can laugh and trust me it wont be awkward at all.
2006-10-28 08:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk about a film, music or ask her about her day.
Current events are good, but can be tricky....
2006-10-28 08:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk about football
2006-10-28 08:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask her what she wanna talk about.
2006-10-28 08:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her what she did today.Whats going on tomorrow.
2006-10-28 08:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
duriong any sinlence be like hey i love you, or i suppost you are quiet because you are thingking of us, or something cute like that!
2006-10-28 08:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by SO......... 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋