I am in love with someone. We had a relationship four years ago and his cousin told him many bad things about me(that are not and will never be true)and we broke up. But, all these years i love him with the passion i felt the first day i met him. But he has his life now and i am alone, next year i am going outside my country to study in a university but he will be in my heart forever. What can i do? I have never done anything with anyone from the day i broke up with my first love, Mark.
2006-10-28 08:45:14 · 12 answers · asked by Melany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you haven't had "your say" and told him that the gossip was not true it would help to get that off your chest. Some guys say bad things to get the girl for themselves.
Once you've had "closure" you should get on with your life,look into what you will do at university: what the town has to offer, what other things to do after school. You could research this on line and have a great time planning and looking forward to your future. Forget about the past.
2006-10-28 08:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by somethingelse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I'm a man who is 23 and I say that it is really hard to lose someone you really love and like but you can't let that hold you down; and it maybe true that you wont find anyone else like him ever and if you do it will be a much better person than the last "believe it" . Right now you got to be concerned about yourself and what your doing right now and it might not be level at this time but it will all work out.
2006-10-28 15:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by #3p $ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you send him a card at Christmas time and write a note inside. Let him know that you are doing ok and it's a shame that your relationship ended because of things you didn't do and a cousin who said so many lies. tell him you would like to keep in contact with him and that you going to a university ouside the country next year and perhaps he can give you his email so you can let him know how it is, and if he would like to talk to you sooner, that you hope he has kept your phone number to call you; and, in case he didn't, add in with your note. if he cares he will contact you and if he doesn't, at least you'll know and can go on with your life. good luck!
2006-10-28 16:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him, see how he feels in a round about way with out telling him how you feel, and if what he says sounds like he feels the same, then tell him, or don't say anything and live your life in a what if I only said something to put some kind of closer on the situation.
2006-10-28 15:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by melissa l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on with your life - as you said, he has a life now, there is nothing more you can do. if he believed something someone else told him and caused the break up, then maybe he wasn't in love with you. The move will do you good.
2006-10-28 15:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Blazegirl, it's time to move on and not hold on to bits of great times you may have had with him.
You will soon meet new people and laugh at this brief moment in your life...
Good luck to your heart...
2006-10-28 15:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find him, and tell him. Anything and everything. What's the worse that could happen? If you at least try, you have nothing to lose.
2006-10-28 15:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it moving...thats what you do. You are sulking about a guy you haven't been with in four years...get over it and move on!
2006-10-28 15:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie_6234 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is time for you to move on with your life!
2006-10-28 15:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
call him and try to talk to him, or email him just to see how everything is going for him..keep it casual at first
2006-10-28 15:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋