would you be turned off if the girl made the first move or is that okay???
2006-10-28 08:32:18 · 17 answers · asked by kati 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We guys are shy, go for it.
2006-10-28 08:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both parties have to be attracted or it will not work unless you are under the influence. If there is an attractionthan there are no rules, all bets are off as well as a few articles of clothing. You must be gentle and not too rough with the guys because they are more sensitive. Do not take his private parts and put a death grip on them. Kiss his ears and work your way down to his neck, rip his shirt open and with your toungue and lips all over his chest (this may tickle him so like the gas peddle of the car just enough to make it a high performance ride. Take your time while doing this. It will not only turn him on but it will turn you on too. In other words when making the first move make sure you have a 2nd and 3rd move lined up, you are in control; and this guy will be your puppy, you will have the power. A couple glasses of red wine and a couple cup of coffee are good for a sexual power boost and Tequilla shots as an alternative will will help you with your opening move and duration.
Wow I don't know what got into me with this answer but I am hot and horny now all of a sudden. It is time for my move!
2006-10-28 15:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by laxthefacts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! That's a turn-on! Aggressive women can be a turn on to me. Some men get tired of making the first move the majority of the time. I feel that if you like a person, then let them know, rather if it's a male or female engaging with the first actions...
2006-10-28 15:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...would not be turned off if the ''move'' was well considered and the lady was able to communicate what are her interests/attractions.
...the problems occur when prejudices of mind obscure any/all openings of meeting ...
so...if a guy thinks that a girl is initiating contact strictly and only for sexual purposes or if a girl thinks that a guy is only interested in sexual contact....or if the interest is not sex but some other socially acceptable meeting point such as business relationship...
the point is........if any person of any gender has an attraction to someone the person attracted should be able to share honestly their own ideas/feelings and interests.
2006-10-28 15:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by noninvultuous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is okay, especially for someone like me who is shy. If a girl makes the first move it would actually relax me and make me feel more comfortable.
2006-10-28 15:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Compton,CA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all....actually I find it quite stimulating to have a girl make the first move. After that she can by me dinner too.
2006-10-28 15:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Eldude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men like a woman that is confident, knows what she wants and goes after it. Its a big turn on!
2006-10-28 15:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would rather have the girl make the first move
2006-10-28 15:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by falsman14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont mind sex on the first date and if shes making all the right moves all the better....lol
2006-10-28 15:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by roobeng.indahouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely OK with me - where do you want to go?
2006-10-28 15:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋