i had a bf that i really cared about and he broke my trust and left me as if i never existed. he acts as if he doesnt care for me and he hurt me deeply. how could he treat me this way for no reason. the problems he caused in this relationship, he did nothing to repair. now he blames me for cursing him and doesnt come around anymore. he hurt me bad and how was he gonna think i was going to respond to this? with a smile on my face. well what do i do to get him out of my system. i keep thinking about him even if he did dog me out.
2006-10-28 08:30:05 · 6 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep your chin up sweetie. It gets better for sure. Been there and done that a million times, and so will you. You may not think so right now, but you will eventually find someone who REALLY cares for you. So keep that chin up and if you see him at all, definitely put that smile back on your face. Don't give him the satisfaction of making you miserable.
2006-10-28 08:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept what has happened is the first step. Recognize that though we as women ( or just a person) may not like or agree with others actions and how they handle a situation, but what another does or does not do is not in out control.
Heal, get over it, move on, take a look at DR. Phil's website, among other issues, just regarding yours he may enlighten you with a few really good idea's.
best of luck sweetheart
2006-10-28 15:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of dating. There is no answer to this question other than the bland, and somewhat unhelpful, 'time heals all wounds'. He is not worth it, but you don't agree with me. When you are older you will see I am right. But you have to learn this for yourself, and no one can tell you this. :-(
(If it's any consolation, you never get used to people hurting
you. But it becomes less painful, and you get better at avoiding
those people who really don't care.)
2006-10-28 15:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ego Fatigo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are better than that. Right now it hurts, but give it time things will get better. You have to let men know that you are strong, beautiful, and that he lost a wonderful woman. In time GOD WILL SEND YOU THE MAN HE WANTS YOU TO HAVE.
2006-10-28 15:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need a proper reason and a formal closure to ur relationship.
2006-10-28 15:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just try to forget him. i know it's hard to do that but try your best. just think this way, since he's such a jerk, good thing he's not with you anymore right? think about it.
2006-10-28 15:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by Raine[: 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋