What's up with some of you? Some of you may complain about not finding the right guy. There are some guys out there that are doing their thing, meaning they have lots of positive things going for them. One guy i know is full of ambition, has a really good job and have other qualities women tend to want in a man. Seems like women reject him or are just too afraid to give him a chance. He is not agressive when he introduces himself to someone he's attracted to. And for some of you thinking this, he's not a bad looking guy. My cousin and I try to introduce him to friends but most of them say he's a great guy......but nothing results. "He's too nice" some say. What's up with that?
2006-10-28 08:21:03 · 14 answers · asked by johnblaze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In response: so from some of your answers, women like to play "chase games", don't really know what they want, are contradicting to thier own emotions, wants a bad boy to chase after them to stroke their egos because some are egocentric but don't want to stay commited to him because he's a bad boyfriend.....wierd is'nt it?
2006-10-28 10:14:04 · update #1
i don't know...ask that girl
2006-10-28 08:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by roxanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we do like a guy that is doing his thing, who is full of ambition has a really good job, and has other qualities such as looks, HOWEVER, woman tend to like the aggressive bad boy~a guy that will chase and go for the prize. having a guy chase me a little shows me that he wants me and is interested in me, and it feels good. it strokes the ego and makes that person stay on your mind all day, cuz you just want more of what they are dishing out.... if he doesn't show her that he wants her, then how will she know... we aren't mind readers!! and nice guys do finish last, mostly because they don't know how to make a woman feel like a woman...
its hard to explain, but easy to see from what you wrote, why this guy has problems with women.
2006-10-28 08:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't tell you for sure, every girl is different. I for one would like to get to know the person before even going out with him. You know hang out with a group of friends. And I have never heard of a too nice of a guy, but it does happen every blue moon. I met a lot of nice guys after I got married. But I wish some girls would take the time (guys as well) to look for more then just a person to sleep with. Best of luck with your friend. Hope he finds a girl that treats him right.
2006-10-28 08:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by VMG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love Holly G, she's so nice and never generalizes about anyone!
Hey Holly, just cuz some guy ripped your heart out of your mouth doesn't mean you have to take it out on everyone else.
To poster: I realize I'm not a woman, but I know a lot about them. Anyways, I'd have to meet him to know for sure, but he might be kinda boring. I know a few people like this who just can't hold the interest of women because they are just a bit too vanilla.
2006-10-28 08:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by thepiperad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, personally, never met a "too nice" guy. Many women have been hurt, and are synical when it comes to men....if it seems to good to be true it usually is, type of idea.
And other women just want a "bad boy" (never understood that one).
But really, there is someone out there for you friend, and I'm sure he'll find her:)
2006-10-28 08:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for that girl, but I appreciate a good guy and I don't think any guy is "too" nice. Some girls just like thugs and losers....someone they have to play head games with and lose sleep over. To all the good guys out there I say'"Good for you and stay sweet".
2006-10-28 08:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is such a thing as too nice, there are also those girls who want the 'bad boy'. I think most girls want a nice guy but one who also seems able and willing to protect them and that sort of thing. I wouldnt want a syrupy sweet guy - there needs to be a balance and a bit of manliness you know?
2006-10-28 08:24:19 · answer #7 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you men put on this charm to get a hold of you then when it wears off & your together they begin acting like your not there some men not all can be jack arsses but some can be very nice in my oppion they need to grow up a little more ...
2006-10-28 08:27:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't meeting the right girls and some of us girls can't seem to meet the right girls. If it was 3 years ago and I met him I would have to take look. I don't haven't seen to nice.
2006-10-28 08:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by jeleaya82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women like men to be more aggressive, since this shows, emotionally, that theyll be capable of taking care of us.
that has nothing to do with being too nice. he needs to show more initiative, more talk, etc. he needs to show that he REALLY wants to get to know us better. thats why he is been dubbed, too nice. too passsive. so that wont fly.
2006-10-28 08:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by cruzanglero 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it might not be enough for some women or it can be that he seems too good to be true i have that problem all the time...we're just tired of givin chances and bein played that's all
2006-10-28 08:24:54 · answer #11 · answered by REGINA A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋