TELLS ME HE LOVES ME...THAT HE WOULD NEVER HURT.....WHY DO THEY DO THAT
2006-10-28 08:18:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You always be my girl,I'll never hurt your feeling
2006-10-28 11:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the immature human male (at any age) is an impulsive creature and will say what he wants you to hear to get the reaction he wants you to have. He wants something from you, so he says sweet things he doesn't really mean.
Your job in life, to be a good mother, girlfriend, friend, and to have a succession of better days, is to find your strength and centeredness and know who you are. As you become stronger, you will recognize the difference between real love and manipulation. It's difficult and painful to be where you are, and you don't have to spend your life that way. Even if it seems impossible now, just remember what I've said and work on it. Life will get better. Don't put up with someone who is emotionally abusive. Gravitate toward people who are kind and they will gravitate to you. One day you'll be smiling in the warm sun and will hardly believe you ever trusted this creep.
2006-10-28 15:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Obvious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better make sure he means what he says. Otherwise you might get hurt. Really hurt. I think its wise to do some testing till you trust. Maybe make a point system. One good hour with a person, 1 point. Then add em up. For weird abusive or confusing behavior, maybe subtract some points depending how serious. Then see if the net effect is good for both of you. If it is then continue it.
2006-10-28 15:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's what they feel at the moment or a way to get you in bed.
By the way, only you can be resposible for your feelings. You alone decide what hurts and what doesn't. Feelings change all the time and you can decide not to be hurt by what someone says or does.
The feelings are yours. So if you're hurt, it's because you let yourself feel hurt. Chalk it up to experience and move on.
2006-10-28 15:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by the shadow knows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he wants you to know that he loves you and would never hurt you. there is no mystery code into what guys are saying. they say what they mean and that's that.
2006-10-28 15:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys say it to get some nookie. Some guys say it because they love you. Keep your knees closed; if he loves you, he'll stick around! Good luck dear.
2006-10-28 15:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by irishman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get in your pants:)lol and to tug at your heart strings!
but in all honestly i do believe they mean it at the time. no one intends to hurt the people they love on purpose.
2006-10-28 15:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to like the answer, but it's tell you what you want to hear, so that maybe you give up something that he wants.
2006-10-28 15:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by Manny 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid men will tell you anything you want to hear to get you in bed....that's the truth of life
2006-10-28 15:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by michael b 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
On the first date, to get layed.
2006-10-28 15:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by Valerie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋