my ex-boyfriend and i broke up after a month, and he loves me alot but i don't like him as much as he likes me. ever scence we broke up he's been callling, stalking and e-mailing non-stop! he is really obsessed and im creeped out! but the thing is hes really sweeet and i don't want to hurt him, but i told him i needed space but he doesn't really get it. whta sould i do?
2006-10-28 08:17:59 · 9 answers · asked by Mikey Way's biggest fan! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him you need some time to yourself and if he truly loves you he'll give you space...it's really weird that ya'll only dated a month and he's acting this crazy....might hace to get a restraining order if this continues
2006-10-28 08:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's showing you these signs now honey, you should thank you lucky stars you broke up with him when you did.. You say it was only a month that you were dating.. How do you fall that in love with someone in that short a period? He has a screw loose somewhere, For God sake don't take him back, and tell him if he doesn't stop harrassing you you'll go to the cops.. Stalking of this kind is against the law.Then he'll know your serious..Don't fool yourself into thinking that this is love it's obsession.......
2006-10-28 08:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by MKM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just mutualy tell him easily about how you feel and how you need personal space tell him that you still care but you dont have feelings anymore and he should understand stalking is a big issue especialy if someone loves you so much i had issues along long time ago just tell him that u want to be friends and nothing more and to give u time im sure he will understand :D good luck with this issue and i hope everything works out ok for u!
2006-10-28 08:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He the two nevertheless likes you or is seeking a reason to be jealous. as long as you're single and he's not, he feels ok. the 2nd he unearths out you're in a sparkling courting, he'd probably be jealous. you will get him to go away you on my own via now not chatting with him in any respect. Block him on IMs and forget approximately approximately his texts (or have them blocked if mandatory). as quickly as that is obvious which you're rather going out of your thank you to forget approximately approximately him, he might desire to get the belief. If he nevertheless would not get the hint, tell him outright to offer up chatting with you.
2016-10-16 12:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to give you space or you will be calling the cops up for harassment
2006-10-28 08:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be sweet, but nevertheless, he is stalking you. Tell him to stop it and don't worry about his hurt feelings, worry about your peace of mind.
2006-10-28 08:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalking is illegal, call the police.
2006-10-28 08:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire someone to "alert" him!
2006-10-28 08:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how you feel and if you dont want a friendship tell him
2006-10-28 08:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by coach mora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋