To ugly people?

Question

Did you manage to love yourself and have a high self-esteem ..
and don't care about what people says about you?if yes how?
becasue I'm ugly and I have a low self-esteem and I'm really
afraid of what people think about me

HONEST answers plz

Answer 1

First of all, why do you consider yourself ugly? Is it because of what other people say? I'm 44 yrs old and have lived in alot of places, worked with thousands of people and have come to the conclusion that there really are no ugly people, rather people with ugly attitudes and behaviors. For example, Naomi Campbell is considered to be one of the most beautiful supermodels but her behavior and the way she treats people makes her ugly in my eyes.
I've taken the time to find out what hairstyles and colors work best for me, how to wear make up that flatters my skin and eye color and what styles of clothing work best for me. I care less what people think of me and how I look. People will talk about you no matter what you look like or what you do so no need to fear them or let them control your life.
I look at what's inside people to find beauty. If you really take a close look at the celebrities and famous people, they aren't any prettier or handsome than average unknown folks. If they were, why would they be spending so much money on cosmetic surgery, starving themselves and wearing tons of makeup and wigs?

Answer 2

Look, I'm not an ugly person (at least I don't think so and the people and girls I know don't think so lol). But, I did feel that I was ugly before. It was all a problem with self-esteem, best thing to do is to go out there make friends, have a good attitued towards the way you look. Looks count for very little (even when we're talking about girls, there are a lot more stuff that they look at in depth than looks believe me !). Go to the gym, be fit, you'll feel better, wear cool clothes, grooming, cut your nails, cool hairstyle, this will do wonders for you and raise your self-esteem. Just believe that you are good-looking and you will be. It's all about how you carry yourself. If you make a girl laugh with your wit she won't even be bothered if you were quasimodo.

Answer 3

OK First of all I don't think I'm ugly. someone else might, someone may find you attractive. but by you thinking your so ugly and having low self esteem people will be able to sense that from you and tend to stay away! Build up your self esteem, make sure your clean and dress nice and have clean clothes and shoes and clean hair at least start taking care of yourself try not to feel ugly or look ugly. brush your teeth, use deodorant and mouth wash. When people don't do those things that's what makes them ugly.

Answer 4

I've have boyfriends like you, actually, 2. Thinkg of yourself as ugly won't help you in the long run.

Look in the mirror in the morning and repeat "I can do it" You have to look at yourself and learn to deal with the way you look. when you become comfortable with yourself, then what people think about you won't matter.

Everyone is beautiful in their on speical way. You have a unique beauty that people don't reconize quickly. Thats the best kind of beauty.

But, to build your self-esteem look yourself in the mirror and say that you are handsome, and the person who has you will be o so lucky. Your are beautiful and handsome from inside to out. Don't forget for one second in you life. Believe.

Answer 5

Yes I did but it took time to convince myself that im ugly and I really focus things that I love to do and now I have a high self esteem and I've love myself for being the best me I can be

Answer 6

The only ugly people in the world are cruel dishonest manipulative people.
If this applies to you then you are ugly.
But I think in all seriousness that people who are malformed in the current use of this term do have a struggle competing with the beautiful people. Anyone who can stand alone with severe facial or body disfigurement will develop personal qualities in excess of the ordinary. So it's swings ad roundabouts in the beauty stakes.
Answer this who would you rather tell a problem to, a gorgeous insensitive person or an ugly thoughtful person.. Your choice......

Answer 7

I'm ugly looking.comparing to perhaps millions of people.Im still trying to convince myself.But life goes on and I have dreams too.Im a good person and I want to succeed.and do what I love the most.

Answer 8

1st and foremost. i am not ugly
What makes a person U-G-L-Y
is the inside
your features will always change.
I'll have you know I married my husband for what i saw in his heart.
Don't complex yourself.
It is not always important.
There are people in this world that are good looking, what is pleasing to the eye.
Well, what is pleasing to the eye will not always be pleasing to the heart.
Good looks usually pays a price.
People with good looks i have found, are self centered and egotistical.
You don't want to be egotistical and self centered do you? NO

Answer 9

i believe that even if you're ugly(as u are claiming) but you have a very good attitude, then im pretty sure people will come to realize that you are just as beautiful as others.. It doesnt mean that if beautiful = success...
Its how you carry yourself..

Answer 10

Well, I am not ugly. Actually I am pretty damn gorgeous, but if I were ugly, I would rely on my good qualities and not worry about what I cannot change.