what is "four play", is it necessary, and who are the two other people. I'm really embarrased to ask this but it is not really possible to ask my Mum, aunts or younger sister.
2006-10-28 08:03:22 · 25 answers · asked by Josephine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
What if I don't want to do it?
2006-10-28 08:10:33 · update #1
Ahh your a funny man! Just read your questions, u cracked me up, I needed a good laugh, Thanks mate!
2006-10-29 09:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by irish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four play is when you kiss, stroke, massage each other before sex, it can include a few other things as well. Some people feel it is necessary to get into "the mood", in the first couple of years in a relationship lust controls all this so it's not a necessity but after about 5/6 years onwards, I would say its definately necessary...you need something to "get you going" :)
As for not wanting to do it...only do what you feel comfortable with, never get forced into doing something you don't want, doesn't matter if this guy is soon to be your husband, don't let him force you into anything.
2006-10-28 08:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are you saying 'yippee' to an arranged marriage!
Its fore play not four play it doesnt involve 4 people unless you want it to.It can involve how ever many people you want.
It means sexual stimulation, usually as a prelude to sexual intercourse. This can include kissing and touching, it helps excite and arouse you for sex.
Have a great wedding!
2006-10-29 23:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way that this is real...
But if it is, what the other people said is pretty much true. Women almost always need some foreplay to climax during sex, many men don't a neglect it.
It is generally regarded as an integral part of a healthy sex-life.
2006-10-28 08:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by thepiperad 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no there are only the two of you,this is the the bit where u start before actually aving intercourse,just start by cuddling kissing and then start touchung each others bodies getting to know each other and getting aroused and horny
2006-10-30 01:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by morty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really love this guy who you are having to get married to,arranged marriages are a disgrace,you should be allowed to choose who you marry not someone choosing them for you.think seriously about what you are doing.
2006-10-28 20:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is fourplay necessary? Depends if you're a man or woman and if you want to satisfy your other quarter.
2006-10-28 08:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Paul E 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's "foreplay" and it is done between husband and wife.....it just means before sex....like things that you do with each other to get ' worked up'for sex....kissing, touching, essentially 'playing' with each other.
2006-10-28 08:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is an excellent site for finding answers to such questions.
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/
In general, this refers to the kissing and touching that couples do before penetration.
2006-10-28 08:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by cei 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You better get practising on some dirty old men.... You dont want to dissapoint the husband on your first night.
2006-10-28 08:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by mark leshark 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋