My girlfriend just phoned to say she has a bun in the oven and was very upset. Am I missing something?

Question

I mean, I am not some dictator who insists she bakes for me. .. What is with her?

Answer 1

everyone is saying that she's pregnant - but wold on a minute - talk about jumping to conclusions....

maybe she's uncomfortable with her eating habits and is feeling pre-emptive guilt. She knows she'll eat it all - and is already feeling bad.

What you should do.
Call round to her house.
When she opens the door surreptitiously chech her clothes and mouth for any crumbs.
Casually walk into the kitchen.
Try to catch the scent of any recently cooked buns.
Finally - if there is no evidence state firmly "I'd like to see the bun -Is it flavoured with ginger?"

try this approach and you'll resolve this issue. no doubt in my mind...

Answer 2

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Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.

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Answer 3

She's pregnant, hormonal, scared, unsure, and she needs some caring and understanding. You are responsible for that child, whether you stay with her or not. Better define your relationship asap. If you never meant to stay together, then don't "just for the sake of the child". That's too much responsibility to put on an unborn child (holding toghther a failing relationship). If you are ready to be parents and partners, then get married, but if you're not, then don't. You can still be friends and the father of her child, without being her partner.

Answer 4

Congrats, she's pregnant. That doesn't mean that she will be upset the whole time. It is a life changing thing. Her life will never be the same. Be there for her, if you get scared, talk about it. Don't punk out. Show her how much you love, respect, honor, and want to be there for her. Above all, be honest...and be a good role model for that baby.

Answer 5

If she is pregnant then you need to talk to her say to her that you will support her no matter what she does. Tell her as well that you love her and you will support her through out this hard time in her life.

The reason she is being all upset about it is maybe she doesn't want this baby or that it is to soon for her to have a baby depending on how old she is

Answer 6

I hope for your sake she just has one bun in the oven. I never bake just one bun - it would be a waste of energy. Just hope it's not a baker's dozen - someone is going to put on weight.

Answer 7

Maybe she wanted 2 buns in the oven...

Answer 8

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Answer 9

and now i know why, if i had a "bun in the oven" for someone like you i would be upset as well. can you really be that stupid not to know what that means

Answer 10

i may be right, i may be wrong, but it sounds to me that shes saying shes pregnant, i mean the bun referring to a baby and the oven as her uterus, ask her what she means, don't wait for her to explode, women can get very emotional over random things, i should know being one myself, but I'm pretty sure it sounds like shes talking about being pregnant, i hope this helps :)