What a MISUNDERSTANG?

Question

TO START: When you like someone, dont you want to look as "available" (as in NOT taken) as possible?--RIGHT??

Here's my story:

There's a guy at my church that I am interested in but have not talked with formally---(We'll call him Timothy)

Anyway another guy (We'll call him James) and his family were announced by the pastor as distinguished visitors. James is a freshman at a Distinguished College, and I happen to go to another Distinguished College across the street.

Anyway I introduced myself to James just to be nice to say (hey I go to a neaby college), BUT His parents got so excited that they wanted me to take pictures with him ----So I once again obliged to be nice.

Anyway, Timothy, (whom I have a crush on) happened to walk by and James's mother asked him to take our (me and James's) picture.

NOOOOOO!!!-----My crush took the picture of Just me and James. (it was like a couple's picture)

NOWWW!!!----Timothy probably thinks that me and and James will be a possible couple---NO

SORRY!!---I accidentally clicked on the Religious & Sprituality section to post this question

But if you want to answer--- your call
--i wouldnt mind it

Answer 1

talk to Timothy
what is the worst that could happen
If he never knows that you are interested in him then you will never know if it could become more

Answer 2

just go to Tim privatly and thank him for taking the picture and then just happen to say" I was Sooo uncomfortable. I do'nt even know James and I have no idea why his parents thought it would be good to have a picture just because we go to colleges close by each other"...or something like that....

Answer 3

Don't freak out--this is a minor setback--it'll just take a little longer to get his attention--besides, everybody knows that the forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest--maybe he'll take more of an active interest in you if he thinks someone else wants you

Answer 4

the next time you see Timothy why not ask him if he would oblidge you by taking a picture of you alone ? then ask him to join you for a coke or cup of coffee as a " thank you. " to see what happens

Answer 5

Rain,

Let the guy that you like know what's going on before its too late.

Shalom

Answer 6

To know what a miss-understanding is, let's see what Solomon the wise guy says understanding is in Prov 4; the result of get it: understanding being thy head gets crowned with grace glory.

Only two glorys compared in 2Cor 3's from glory to glory: law and grace. So by the Spirit we are all changed, from law glory to grace glory... thereby we understand a miss-understanding would be having law glory and thinking it's the glory of God.

Timothy got bewitched along with churches of Galatia he was bishop over from Ephesus, by John who was also bishop over same churches from Ephesus. Timothy was Paul's bishop, and John was poplish Cephas' bishop. Timothy got sorely depressed the churches he was to guard from johnny law got bewitched. But we know he recovered, by study to shew thyself approved unto God; for it tells us in Heb 13 Timothy is set at liberty, from being sow dog done oppresed by his own law law.

Now to James. He didn't get bewitched, and gets to write to his scattered brain brethren about things like pure religion pd a visit not a ransom, temptation is not of God, and firstly pure wisdom from above (grace from God) is also firstly peace-able of seven things pure grace is in Jam 3:17.

So, I'd stay with Jam, to avoid gettin bewitched like Tim.

Answer 7

well u dont want to look like ur with somone but u dont want to look like ur single either u want to look as though u look like somone who might be taken but u also want to look avalible if u have a crush it is hard being a girl and i am not sure if my resond will help but try it

Answer 8

I think you took a wrong turn and ended up in R&S.

Answer 9

lol i was wondering why it this question was here


talk to the dude (timothy) otherwise you'll lose your chance

Answer 10

wow good luck with that one