From the start, my female cousin had a online game boyfriend. Lets call him 'A'. 'A' was a really nice person and suited her PERFECTLY. A few months ago, she met her boyfriends' "brother" who is not really his brother but just a best friend. Lets call him 'B'. When 'B' saw my cousin, he knew that her boyfriend was his best friend, and 'B' had a REAL LIFE girlfriend already. But he liked my cousin and started chasing after her. He dumped his ex-reallife girlfriend, just-like-that, because he wanted to chase after my cousin. He threatened 'A' to stop chasing after my cousin and made her dump 'A'. Now, my cousin and 'B' are together as a real couple, despite all of the protests from me, my other cousins and even her parents. We know that since 'B' could dump his ex-girlfriend like that, and actually forward her love messages to my cousin, he would surely do the same to my cousin in the future. I want to stop their relationship but I dont want to hurt her. What should I do?? Please help me
2006-10-28 06:49:52 · 7 answers · asked by Teddy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And, even though 'B' knows that we all do not approve to their relationship, he still dares to flirt with my cousin and actually FRENCH KISS her in front of us, which makes us really mad. He has a bad reputation for starting fights and he got sent to army jail for almost slashing one of his squadmates. Despite all this she is still smitten with him and this is really not going to work out. Their relationship has to be nipped in the bud immedietly. Now I know love is truly blind and also dumb, but this has to be stopped. I know it is quite a complicating thing but help is really needed.
2006-10-28 06:54:47 · update #1
And, Im not meddling... Im trying to save her life. Its not like only me who disapproves, tell that to the 10+ other people who dont like it either
2006-10-28 06:57:26 · update #2
NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS
2006-10-28 06:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by valveman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me just answer your initial question with my response: stay out of it, you are meddling. In the end usually people get angry and stop talking to meddlers.. If you want to be left out in the cold (so to speak) then keep up your antics. This is not your problem so I suggest you get yourself a hobby, do some text book studying, anything, just busy yourself with something else.
2006-10-28 13:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id stay out of the persons business. If you were dating someone and one of your family member didnt agree would you want them getting in the middle of things starting heat between you two?
2006-10-28 13:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, stay out of it. It is her life, and she shouldn't have to worry about pleasing family with it. If it goes bad, be there for support only. Above all, keep all comments about him to yourself.
2006-10-28 13:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her make her own bad decisions, she'll learn from them.
if not, then talk to her and make her realize what all he does for her. point out all the bad things. make her notice how things will be for them in the future if this behavior continues.
2006-10-28 13:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Donigan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call this guy up, pretend to be your cousin, and tell him that you never want to see him again.
2006-10-28 13:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING , LET HER LEARN ON HER OWN ITS PART OF GROWING UP
2006-10-28 13:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by blackd010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋