if a man has 30% more weight than his normal weight to height ratio,would he be considered attractive to women and what are the other factors that women look 4 in a man to be attractive to them?
2006-10-28 06:33:15 · 25 answers · asked by dan d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. I look for a great personality and someone who respects me as a person. Weight has never been an issue. If a man is confident with himself, it will show and to me that is sexy. :)
2006-10-28 06:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by á?|?? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are slightly larger than what your body form is suggested it doesn't mean that you are less attractive to certain individuals
If you are feeling uncomfortable with your weight you may consider loosing .
what do you feel about a woman that might have a little extra body weight. Do you look upon them as someone to disregard?
There are women out there that like a man to be bigger/ some to be smaller. Depends on the individual.
Only my personal opinion
I think one should not only take in the outter but the inner individual as well.
2006-10-28 13:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, we (people) are still looking at the 'looks' first and are stereotyping.
Personally, I observe how a man presents himself, behaves in public, and when together. He needs to have compassion for others, he needs to be intelligent/smart and passionate.
His morals, and his look on life.
And if the 30% more weight is a problem for him, I will work together with him to lose it. Not with a diet, but with a lifestyle change, the way how we eat and what we eat, mental stage, exercise.... and do forget love...
Maybe not all women fall in love at first side, but I heard a lot of love stories, where love came later.
Money, is the least and the last thing on my list, however I do like a man with a clean/good credit, as this shows me, that he is financially responsible.
If you had asked me this question when I was a teenager... I would say looks and he needs to have a car... :)
Hope I answered your question.
2006-10-28 14:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are always interested in considerate men who are intelligent, have a sense of humor and are confident. These are some, but not all of the qualities that attract women. Focus on your strengths and develop these and also the ability to be a good listener and good companion. At the same time, you may want to consider becoming fitter, but for your own good, not anyone else's. Why not join a fitness program or outdoor sports. You never know...you just might meet someone at the same time. Good luck.
2006-10-28 13:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man can OMG drop dead gorgeous...but stink when it come to treating a women right... its 50/50 on this one... some want a man that is strong when he needs to be but have a gentle loving side... how a man talks to me... in all aspects of our lives is what keeps me attracted... how he treats me when I'm sad or mad... how he treats me when he is mad or tired... and looks are just what they are... how you look..
then the other fifty could careless about personality and would rather be trated like apiece of craps than have a man that is not perfectly formed physically...
To the other part of your question... find a woman tha tis 305 overweight also... she is feeling the same as you.
hope this helps
2006-10-28 13:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good heart is what is attractive to me-----YEAH, but all of you men think women are after money
Lay off the percentages and ratios and just be yourself
If you really want an honest opinion, why not post a pic of yourself on the web. Do you have one on your 360?
2006-10-28 13:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't look at a guy for his body and weight is not a factor to me. i'm a bit on the heavy side myself. so i ask you would you be attratced to a girl with a few extra pounds? if you say yes then see same goes for a girl with a guy. that is unless the girl is just totally into looks and not personality. to me personality is more important that age or looks. i mean i'm 31 and i was very attracted to an over weight guy who was 50 yrs old. i liked his personality. so looks and age are not important at least not to me.
2006-10-28 13:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥musiclover♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How tall are you and how much do you weigh? It all depends on how you carry the weigh. My husband has gained about forty pounds more than when I met him but it looks good on him. Besides I like big men, not obese but a more on the stocky side. If you are fat, sloppy and completely out of shape, then no I am not interest but if your like a cuddly teddy bear than I may be attracted to you. Other than that I enjoy a man with a sense of humor, honest, relatively fit, good listener, attentive, and one who isn't afraid to show his feelings for me.
2006-10-28 14:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women do not care about weight. Not at all. Others will. Be the best guy you can be, try to take care of yourself, and the right lady will come along and grab your heart!
Best wishes from a grandma-aged person
2006-10-28 13:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course 30% weight is attractive. I also look at intelligence which is an EXTREME turn on for me...
2006-10-28 13:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋