TO START: When you like someone, dont you want to look as "available" (as in NOT taken) as possible?--RIGHT??
Here's my story:
There's a guy at my church that I am interested in but have not talked with formally---(We'll call him Timothy)
Anyway another guy (We'll call him James) and his family were announced by the pastor as distinguished visitors. James is a freshman at a Distinguished College, and I happen to go to another Distinguished College across the street.
Anyway I introduced myself to James just to be nice to say (hey I go to a neaby college), BUT His parents got so excited that they wanted me to take pictures with him ----So I once again obliged to be nice.
Anyway, Timothy, (whom I have a crush on) happened to walk by and James's mother asked him to take our (me and James's) picture.
NOOOOOO!!!-----My crush took the picture of Just me and James. (it was like a couple's picture)
NOWWW!!!----Timothy probably thinks that me and and James will be a possible couple---NO
2006-10-28 06:21:08 · 14 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're in college with this problem?
Why don't you act like an adult and tell 'timothy' that you like him, ask him out. Say hey Tim let's go out for a bite and a drink, if he says I thought that you were with James then tell him that james' parents are a little.. crazy.. and wanted you to take a picture and taht was it.
Problem solved
2006-10-28 06:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have not had the occasion to talk to Timothy formally, now is the time. Walk up to him and with a big smile, say, "Hello...didn't you take a picture of me last week?" Then continue after you have his attention...tell him...."I was surprised the people wanted my picture. I don't know them or their son. They asked if I would pose with him. Hek, maybe they should have taken a picture of you and I standing together. We would make a cuter couple, wouldn't we?" I think he would find you charming and would likely be flattered. Then who knows what might develop from there....!
2006-10-28 06:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha
Its not the end of the world its not like he shot you two making a porn. If you want timothy you should persue him let him know your interested. Continuesly sit next to him at church, if conversation is good then ask him to give you a ride to after church activity such as lunch then when he takes you home or back to church get his number then call him at home and viola you are practicaly already dating.
2006-10-28 06:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off timothy is an idoit for taken the picture i guess with his stupidity that is why he's not in a distinguished college so dump him he'll probaly wind up as a stocker at wal-mart go with the othe guy at least he'll have a degree so he can support you after you popped out a few kids and dont wind up on welfare
2006-10-28 06:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by rectal itch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep what you were doing in the first place nothing much you werent kissing him or anything and ask timothy do you and him want to hang out sometime make it work
2006-10-28 06:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by newyork90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a misunderstanding! What a connundrum! Hmm what are you going to do now? LOL sorry no need to laught it just is a funny situation.
2006-10-28 07:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by trini_rocker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just start to talk to timothy and tell him your single and ask him if has a gf good luck :)
2006-10-28 06:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by The_Truth_Finder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask timothy if he thinks dat u n james are together.. if he does think dat tell him dat its not true
2006-10-28 06:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by cuteangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, okaaaaay, sounds like you're pissed off! Who cares what people think of you? Just as long as you are happy with yourself!
2006-10-28 06:23:47 · answer #9 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats weird,you better let timothy know somehow
2006-10-28 06:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by boozer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋