2006-10-28 06:21:01 · 20 answers · asked by b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when your asking yourself that question. Obviously your not happy so let it go.
2006-10-28 06:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by angie_adie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is bringing more negative (i.e. aggravation, stress, fights, insecurity, rage, etc) into you life than positive...you have to weigh it fairly and move on. Also, if he brings out the worst attributes in your personality - that's another sign. A SO is sup'd to lift us up and bring out the best in us for the majority of the time. Also, if the majority of your friends and family (who know you and love you the most) are consistently telling you to get rid of him (or you'd be better off without him)...that is a definite sign!
There's so many more, i.e. if you find yourself thinking of being with someone else alot - if he's not treating you right. To be honest, the fact that you're asking this question says to me that it might be time. I would never ever even think this question, and I am very happy in my marriage. Get it??
Good luck whatever you decide. Don't settle when you could have so much more.
2006-10-28 13:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by ckphilly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships can be compared to bank accounts. When you continue to see deposits, the bank account is healthy. When you see more withdrawals than deposits, the bank account is in trouble and when you stop seeing money going into the account, but the withdrawals continue, bankruptcy is inevitable. Similarly, relationships can suffer if there is more negative than positive. Make yourself a checklist of both negatives and positives in the relationship. Taking time to analyse what is working and what is not working is a useful exercise. If you see that the "negative" column is longer than the positive and that there is no chance of repairing what is wrong...then, honey, move on.
2006-11-01 06:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself - am I happy with the idea of being with this person another week/month/year? If the answer's no, it's time to move on.
2006-10-28 13:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Just_wondering 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend,
Please don't be upset with life. Remember, you are not getting another chance to born again and start another new life. So you have to move on with your life and try to focus on what do you want to do with your life. Whether you want to stick with a person who can't make you happy or will you give your life a second chance to dream again with a new person and a new relationship.
2006-10-28 13:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you ask that question, it's time to move on.
2006-10-28 13:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you get an erg to do something and you do it that's when you know you've moved on or when you meet someone else. Basically feel good about yourself. FEELING HAPPY!!
2006-10-28 13:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Dre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hen you look in the mirror and realise that you are getting old not being rude but life waits on no one get on with it. good luck just remember that you are worth it go and have a nice time
2006-10-28 13:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you ask yourself that question dont give another day of your life where your not living that day to the fullest remember it may sound like a cliche but you got to cease the day
2006-10-28 13:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to let go when you have to ask yourself that question hun,im sorry but get over it and move on
2006-10-28 13:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by vicki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will Know,by the little things you used to enjoy suddenly become a...well I suppose attitude.
2006-10-28 13:48:24 · answer #11 · answered by edison 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋