my boyfriend is a flirt but...?

Question

he says he loves me alot. i believe that he does. but the moment he sees a lady he starts hittin on her. he has a whole list of women calling him on his cell. the worst part of all this is we now live in different cities bcoz of our carrers. i cant stop thinking that hes sleeping around with women in the place hes in. there have been times he does not pick up his phone (even on sundays) later he says hye dint hear the ring or he was with a client.. there r days he disappears totally with his phone off. later he says he was out station.. (yeah he does know abt roaming services) he just says he forgot to charge his cell or stuff like that.. help mahn i am sinking into depression. i love him alot.. n when he is with me i cannot imagine he is not in love with me.. i see it in his eyes. yeah he is a sweet talker too.
i think i have written too much. i know u guys sometimes hate this n give rude answers to make it short, hurtful & gain two points.. but real genuine answers will be welcome

Answer 1

I think he is cheating on you or at least do something strange

Answer 2

Hmm.. yeah I can totally see what you are thinking if he "forgets to charge his cell" and is with a client-- on Sundays?? Hmm.. I don't know what he does but most of the time Sunday is pretty much an off day.. Honestly that doesn't sound good.. You are obviously a pretty girl.. You could find someone who is willing to answer that phone any time.. Heck find someone who is in the same town.. You can get someone who doesn't cheat-- ANYONE can do better than that.. Him being a sweet talker.. Just makes it easier for him to cheat and get away with it..

Answer 3

Okay darlin, I did not even have to read everything you wrote to realize that dude is cheatin. He dont know what to tell you so he is just trying to show you he is not forreal in a nonchalant (sly) manner. You need to tell him that you refuse to be his door mat nor watch him VISUALLY cheat by letting his tongue hang to the ground for other females. He needs to go somewhere with the little, "i love you's" Everyone can say it but does he really know what love is. You all may not be married, but LOVE means what the marriage vows spells it out to be....does he know what adultery is? That is what he is committing, something you can do with JUST your eyes....he is playing you crazy...get away from him. I know you love him and it hurts and it may just make you cry, but picture this, you are this beautiful young lady who finally leaves a player and finds one guy who thinks you are the ONLY beautiful thing in the world.... take that picture and find that....get your confidence up and be sick and tired of not being number 1 and only....tell the dude, you are a princess, and you deserve his stares, not them hookers and skanks...tell him he is loosing your trust and if he cant stop looking at other girls, and having them crawl all over his *ick, you are gone....trust he will miss out not you! Dont let him think women like you are Nieve(Ny-EVE) no more! BE STRONG>>>>KICK HIM TO THE CURB BEFORE HE GIVE YOU ANOTHER LAME EXCUSE

Answer 4

I think it is time to find a new boyfriend. Just becuz he says he loves you doesn't mean a thing, actions speak louder than words,& the way he acts, when your apart, seems to say that, when you're out of sight you're out of mind.All those other women are probably thinking the same thing you are,"I know he loves me,I can see it in his eyes." Why be with someone who only treats you like he loves you when hes with you and then disrepects you when hes not? Love isn't suppose to be depressing & hurtful.You may see love in his eyes,but do you see it anywhere else? Take a good look at what you are getting out of the relationship, looks to me like you get alot of disrespect,dishonesty & mistrust, is that what you want out of a relationship?

Answer 5

First of all, if you trust some one, then no worries.. but here the case is different, there is a chance that you boyfriend is fooling you.. according the descriptions u gave me about the phone and all, i feel like that.. i know that u will get angry .. but friend, this is true.. You should not give more importance to some one else.. be confident in yourself, you are worried that he might leave you.. if it happened so, then feel that you are lucky.. Best of luck for a bright future..

Answer 6

It sounds like he may not respect you. Anyone can say that they love you, but does he show it. If he is constantly flirting with other woman and they are always calling him, it would appear as if he is not being faithful. And for you to be "sinking into depression" over some guy..nah you are better than that and once you realize this, you will be able to diss and dismiss his sorry azz. I hope this helps. God Bless.

Answer 7

listen to me, this man is majorly manipulating you. you are so much more than this. maybe he does love you but he doesent respect you at all. all these phone excuses are nothing but just EXCUSES. staying with this man will eventually lower your self esteem if it hasent already. love isint suppose to make you feel wrong or unequal to the person your with. please take my advice and leave this man he has no respect for you whatsoever. i hope i helped good luck ps if he cared about your feelings why would he hit on women infront of you? this is down right disrespectful also your putting yourself at risk for stds

Answer 8

Hes a big cheater come to America and model for Victoria's secret

Answer 9

it sounds like he is cheating on you. dump him and get a nother man. your question was long but you really need advice. thats all i can give you if i come up with something else then i will add it to this.

Answer 10

he's playing you, simple as that! make a clean break and move on with your life, it sure as hell sounds like he has!

sorry, but if you ask me a question, YOU'LL get exactly what I'm thinking!

And by the way, I REALLY like your outfit and how you fill it in!