i was with this guy who told me who loved me.. i am cynical about love,..
but i looked at him n i knew he meant it.. so i decided to love him. and i was very dutiful about it.. lol..
then one day he went off me, as in cldnt stand me touching me etc.. and dint want to talk to me and stuff.. i got very confused and fought with him hoping it would clear stuff up.
instead we broke up.
i tried to get him back cause i dint understand what had happened suddenly.. it seemed like he was pining for me and i dint want him to feel any hurt..
then he told me after one month, that he was pining for a girlfriend of his who had died long back.. heavens.. so he was never in love with me right..
God wat was it that i was in??? could anyone tell me what had happened..
2006-10-28 06:12:44 · 10 answers · asked by anamika 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could be he just needed someone... because of the past.
Or that he does love you and is still screwed up about the other woman's death...
Or He's telling you some story.. because he got what he wanted and doesn't really want to be with you.
in any case if you have feelings for him ask him to talk to you about the 2 of you and your relationship excluding the other person...he owes you and explanation for his actions....especially since he made you believe that he loved you.
2006-10-28 06:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by tincre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb this gf is/was his first true love, and he thought moving on would help heal his heart, but in fact i dont think he is done mourning her. tell him u understand his love for her and will never try to take her place or force him to forget his love for her, that u are there for him if and when he ever wants to talk bout it. Cause thats what he might really need to move on...talk, cry and visit her grave and get some closure. be there for him, everything else will fall into place.
2006-10-28 13:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dunkyin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were the rebound for his loss, sorry to say. He needs time to grieve, and sometimes that takes a very long time before you can truly be in love again. You need to tell him, under the circumstances, his loss is something you cannot help him with, he needs to do it himself.... and just let him go.
2006-10-28 13:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by LARGE MARGE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to say but if he doesn't love you anymore just forget your relationship and just be friends, find someone you fall in love with not someone who you decide to love. Do what your heart tells you and most importantly have fun and good luck!â¥
2006-10-28 13:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by SexyBack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a rebound girlfriend.
Why would you lie to someone about love? If you didn't love him, you should have told him. You don't DECIDE to love someone.
It looks like you both have a lot of growing up to do.
2006-10-28 13:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. You skipped spelling and composition classes. Can't understand what your typing. Sorry
2006-10-28 13:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay not hello to you! time to move on in your life, can you see your boyfriend is fooling and lie to you saying he loves you even not.
be careful don't let your b.f ruin your life. just forget him okay. this kind of boy is not worthy stop thinking of him, your just wasting your time for him. remember this becareful of men saying they just saying that but they don't really meant it easy to say I love you but is it for real. Action speak louder than voice before you prove it that he loves you. learn in your lesson Please!
2006-10-28 13:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by Chimelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are sorry for your self not him
2006-10-28 13:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regression and ur probably right
2006-10-28 13:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by red_oassis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if something happend
2006-10-28 13:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by kzk fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋