all my life I have not once gotten roses delivered to me, I am 42, and no one has ever delivered me flowers, Every guy who takes me out I ask them to bring flowers, Or I ask guys that i know deliver flowers to me, please, But I never get them, and am I saying or asking the wrong thing? And guys back away from getting me flowers, as if iam asking them to buy poison, I want a mans answer, And dont ask if iam too ugly, Noo I am attractive,
2006-10-28 06:09:46 · 11 answers · asked by trudycaulfield 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is truly an odd situation and at 42 you are legitimately asking a good question. I have no idea, nor do I have any smartalic remarks for this one. I have always bought flowers for women in my life so this really surprises me. Good luck with this.
2006-10-28 06:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by barkel76 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too bad we never met.
When I was in my early 20's, I was in the military. When I met an attractive (Even not TOO hideous) woman (Beggars can't be choosy), I would send her flowers. I thought that with the male/female ratio being something like 1000:1 that I would need something to set me apart from the rushing pack.
NEVER even got a date!
I still don't know what the deal was.
If I get lucky and get a date now, I bring flowers and the one time I didn't, I felt bad about showing up empty handed, even though it wasn't "really" a date.
I don't know WHAT women want, but it sure isn't flowers from me!
Since I'm rather experienced in this area, yet not a mind reader, My thoughts are that women see guys who bring/send flowers are desperate, or they're moving way too fast. Like saying "I love you" on a first date would put a woman off.
Just like women don't want a man to get the "wrong" idea, men don't want a woman to get the wrong idea either. Men don't want to send signals they don't mean and flowers from a man have a very deep meaning to a woman. As I can only imagine from my experiences.
2006-10-28 06:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You musn't be direct. If you say straight out to a guy "please bring me some flowers" it'll get his back up. Instead why not focus on him - ask him what kind of thing he likes to be given as small gifts - then just ever so casually mention that you like flowers. The key is to be subtle and casual. If that doesnt work get him a book "the 5 love languages" which might make him think about what pleases you.
2006-10-28 06:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by superscorer2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fret about it too much. It just doesn't seem like a big deal to guys that they should send flowers. Buy some for yourself, and just realize that guys are kind of stupid when it comes to that.
2006-10-28 06:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by seekingtoad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking for flowers implies a romantic expectation. If we had just started going out and you asked me, I'd be outa there so fast!
2006-10-28 06:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 12:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking your date to get you flowers? that's what you mean? if it is, i dont think it's right, it's up to the man to make that decision...
2006-10-28 06:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Valencianista 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell them to get u flowers...if he wants to he will
2006-10-28 06:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
too foward hurts the ego if u make the suggestion they wont do it let them think of it and if they do it will make em proud that they made u happy
2006-10-28 06:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by agdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-28 06:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by Fly_Boy97 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋