the man I've been dating for 8 months now.. I wanna get commited with him but he is ready for it. I want a serious relationship.I tried to talk with him about getting serious . i wanna know the real score. I got hurt coz he told me he isn't ready yet and he is busy. I am so confused actually, he says he isn't ready and he is busy but he makes me feel special. what should I do?
2006-10-28 06:06:26 · 7 answers · asked by tata 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already have your answer no matter how much its not to your liking or it hurts.
Its up to you now to decide what you want to do which is not nice for you but if you really cant be with him without being fully committed then maybe its best to move on and find someone who you will be very happy with.
2006-10-28 06:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dinah L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relsionships take time... I been with my boyfriend for 2years and I want a commitment, but he's not there yet. Although I am ready it take's two in a relsionship and although one is ready the other one may not be there yet. Wait because good thing's come to those who wait... and if you want a commitment then you honestly want to be with him and will respect his choice right now, as he will for you too. In time he will be ready just waint for him... If you wait you will be happy... Just do not pressure him into doing something cause he might say yes but not want too...
2006-10-28 13:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he's not busy and talk and be serious and if he isn't ready give him some time and he will come around
2006-10-28 13:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait six months then ask him again.
after that wait four months before asking again.
that's a year and half all up.
if it's still not right, dump him.
2006-10-28 13:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what he is busy with then decide on your future with him
2006-10-28 13:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by ASMA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with his brother
2006-10-28 13:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by BIG DICK 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-10-28 13:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋