Okay, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months now. I really really love him, but there is also another guy, that I like, and he likes me too. He's asked me to go out with him several times, but every time I tell him that I already have a boyfriend. He's nice to me, and he tells me that I'm pretty and all of that good stuff. But, maybe if I break up with my boyfriend to go out with him, I'll realize that hes not what I thought he was, but it will be to late to get my current boyfriend back. What do I do?
2006-10-28 06:04:18 · 11 answers · asked by Kaitlyn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kaitlyn if you are considering going out with this other guy your love isn't what you think it is for your current boyfriend....
2006-10-28 06:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my gf going thru that now but she told me that she wsa attracted to this other dude and we have been going 2gether for 10 months so the only thing i can tell u is to "never leave the 1 u love 4 the 1 u like cuz the 1 u like will leave u 4 the 1 they love"
and i agree if u say u love ur bf u would make the right decision and u will kno what to do wheneva the time comes to choose but if u break up wit him and try to get back wit him then it will be hard seein as tho u left him 4 somebody else and if u did it once u might do it again
2006-10-28 13:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by master_kels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can "lust" over anyone you want to it's normal. I been with my boyfriend for 2years now, and I liked other guy's other guy's were nice and sweet to me, but then I go home to the man I love and forget the other guy's. Love is confussing but if it is true then there should be no problem. There's this guy I work with and we flirt everyday but he knows and I know it cannot go any further. My boyfriend hasn't done anything for me to dump him and even if he did I love him, and I would try with him again. You just have to remember where your heart is and who it is with. And if you do not feel the same way about him anymore like you first did, then you should let him go.... And remember, if you do want to try this guy you are liking, then remember your boyfriend can see someone else too, could you handle seeing him with another girl??
2006-10-28 13:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all do you have a ring on your finger? If not, your still free to pick on what you wanna do and who to be with you.
If you really love your boyfriend than don't go out with the other.
But if the shoe was on the other foot, would your boyfriend go out with another girl? Ask him, see what he saids.
Perhaps you should meet this other guy for a coke and just
talk to him. Then y ou can see what he's all about, he might not be who you think he is.
2006-10-28 13:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by lindablue8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your thinking right but the other guy could just be a sweet talker. You wouldnt think that boys bet on girls but that could be the case since u already told him u had a boyfriend hes either trying to break up ur relationship. Or trying to score and you they call it hit quit it and never get back wit it. But since you love ur boyfiend so much just try to be on a friendly basics with the other guy and tell him you would just like to b friends nothing more nothing less. And yes if u break up with ur boyfriend for the other guy its chances that he couldnt be wat u thought but then again he could. But u should leave all that love for that other guy. GOOD LUCK
2006-10-28 13:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_luv_tika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really really love your current boyfriend, why would you even think of "trying" a relationship with someone else? This guy may only be interested in you because you are already taken. Is he worth the risk of losing someone you love?
2006-10-28 13:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing your age or what you look like, maybe the other guy just wants to see if you would go out with him, believe me, guys are like that. If you are thinking of seeing other guys, maybe you should sit down with your current guy and tell him you would like to see other people. It would only be fair to him as you might just one time go out behind his back and that wouldn't be the best thing to do. Would you like it if he did that to you. Just talk with him...be honest.
2006-10-28 13:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by dennis68471 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me i have been in your situation before and my mom told me this saying and it helped me and so it might help you
don't leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love..
i have been with my boyfriend now for a year and a half... and there was a guy who i thought i liked but i just liked that he liked me and i stayed with my boyfriend
hope it helps
2006-10-28 13:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're happy now, why risk it and start the whole process over again? I can almost guarantee he will not be exactly who you think he is now. Who doesn't have another side to them?
2006-10-28 13:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I doubt you 'really really love' your boyfriend as much as you think......if you did you wouldn't even consider going out with this other guy.
If you think you might realize he isn't what you thought he is......why bother?
2006-10-28 13:06:29 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋