im 15 and not ready to have sex - so if i went down on my knees is it like bowing down to him? i dont have a boyfriend but if i did i know he would return the favour so does it mean like his bigger than me?
2006-10-28 05:48:09 · 24 answers · asked by Cynthia S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a rule I do not think the act is considered subservient.
However........
Any act that makes you feel humiliated, belittled or inferior, is not something you should do! Be true to your self and you will never go wrong.
2006-10-28 05:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by sunkissed 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion a BJ is more personal and more intimate than regular sex and you should wait until you are involved in a serious relationship for that... I know some kids will tell you that a BJ is not really having sex - but that is a total lie. It's not something you should just go around doing with just any ol' boyfriend. You should wait on the sex and the BJs as long as possible. I waited till I was 18 - and I can't imagine doing any of that before that age. It just seems too young. The sooner you start have sex wether it is oral or otherwise - you will begin you life of heartaches and heartbreak. I would put it off as long as possible.
2006-10-28 05:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally Cynthia, I think that you are too young to even be thinking about sex or even thinking about that type of question. I'm 30 and depending on the circumstances, I feel like giving head could be an inferior thing, but like you said if you are in a loving relationship and the favor is returned and he respects you, then no. At 15, I think that you should be concentrating on other things like school, movies, basketball games, pep rallies. Sex is a very important thing, yet it's unimportant and it's alot of responsibility. Just think about the things you could contract by doing that also. I know you didn't ask all of that, but I just wanted to share that with you. At 30, yes I've felt inferior. Thanks for listening!
2006-10-28 05:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, the very fact that you asked this question sort of says it all. Do you feel like you'd be inferior to him? You're too young for any sex. No, this is an act of love two people who feel deeply for each other participate in. If it makes you feel inferior don't do it.
2006-10-28 05:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
worry about school, if you want to do something like that to a guy give him a hand job. Save the blow for someone you really like, that way you will enjoy doing it to him. Its an act of pleasure, you dont want to do that to a guy you just met. I didnt go down on a girl for the first time until i really knew her and liked her. The first time for any sexual experience should be with someone you really like and enjoy being with not just some schmuck. Good Luck
2006-10-28 05:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by okinaps319 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you give him a BJ it doesn't mean that your inferior to him i was having sex way before your age but if you give him head yall will end up having sex
2006-10-28 05:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready for sex then skip the BJ, not only is it disgusting, you are too young and you need to reserve yourself for that one true love, Good Luck!!!
2006-10-28 05:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No! And 15 is to young for any type of sexual act.
2006-10-28 05:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't worry about all that..your too young..only do it when your ready for it. 15 is WAY too young!! Find a guy who doesn't expect that of you.
2006-10-28 05:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by DefLeppardxXx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are other ways of giving oral without being on your knees.
2006-10-28 05:50:49 · answer #10 · answered by Nep-Tunes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋