This girl and I have known eachother since we were 11. We both had crushes on each other when we were little, we didn't see each other a lot, but we definately never forgot each other. Now we are both graduated and have been talking again after about 5 years of never talking. We both seemed to click as if it was meant to be. Now she is the only one in my head and I can't stop thinking about her. I miss her so much and life is sad when its not with her. She lives in Utah, and I live in Las Vegas now, so I bought a plane ticket to come see her, but now that I am here we have only seen each other once. When she picked me up from the airport. She loves horses, so I brought her a little soft horse, and she loved it. But 3 days later I still haven't seen her, and Im still in Utah, She tells me that she is sick, but I don't know. Is she blowing me off, or is she really just like sick. Whats going on, this trip was mostly meant for her
2006-10-28 05:39:32 · 25 answers · asked by runningtuck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FYI, She doesn't want me to come over to her house, because she says that she doesn't want me to see her. But for the past 2 months she has been so excited to have me come up to see her.
2006-10-28 05:46:07 · update #1
I'm sorry to hear that, well maybe she is really sick. Perhaps you can go and visit her and take her some get well soon ballons, some flowers maybe. Something that tells her you care about her. Think positively, don't give up, because it is better to try than to not do anything and then live with the thought of what could have had happen between the two of you. Well wish you the best and hopefully she sees the love that you have for her.
2006-10-28 05:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by lady butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have flown to Utah, and have only seen her once? Doesn't sound good. But give it one more chance, maybe she is really sick, but she would have to be really ill not to see an old friend flying in from another state.Call her up, and be very honest and direct, tell her you thought there might be a spark between the two of you, tell her that if she doesn't feel the same, just say so, and we can just be old school friends like before. Girls have a hard time telling guys when they aren't interested in them, becuse they don't want to hurt anyones feelings. By being direct but not pushy, you will give her the oppurtunity to be honest a bout how she feels.
2006-10-28 06:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy oh boy u are in a jam. You need to find out if she is really sick.Go see her and bring her a get well card.Don't tell her u are coming just go.If she isn't home then I feel very sorry for u because she is a real mean person.She let u pay for a ticket to go all the way there just to ignore u.Your better off without her.But on the other hand if she is really sick then that can't be helped and u have brought her a card.Tell her u don't care that she is sick that u came all the way their to see her in whatever condition she is in.Good luck hon
2006-10-28 05:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know where she lives? If you do then go and see if shes feeling better, ask her if she wants to go for a walk with you somewhere (such as the beach.) If she doesn't feel like going anywhere then ask if you can go inside and comfort her and like make drinks for her. If she does not want you to do either any of them then just leave her, (go home) then phone her and see if she wants to go to Las Vegas to see you. If it's not a good exuse then she obviously isn't interested. I hope this has helped.
2006-10-28 05:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by ***((amzeh babii))*** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she is a little upset that you guys never really kept in touch.Im sorry if she is blowing you off,but maybe you should try e-mailing her or call her evey once in a while do almost Whatever it takes to keep in touch with her this time Im sure that if you guys were best friends when you were11 you guys can still be now.good luck!
2006-10-28 05:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Rhiannon. Stay[[+]] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. If she is not up for having a relationship with you, she needs to be upfront. Ask her if she has a boyfriend already. It's better to know now before you become more attached. Maybe you're the only one that has those feelings. If not, great. But find out.
2006-10-28 05:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tanyaqt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....i think you should go over to her house, and take her a get well present, and just visit with her, and tell her how you feel about her! its the only way! i dont think shes tryin to blow you off! i think she probably really is sick! cuz she wouldnt do that to you, i mean come one, you bought a plane ticket to go see her in a completely different state, i think shes happy to see you!!! just go see her and tell her how you feel! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-28 05:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her up. offer to bring her some soup & a movie if shes sick. or ask her if shes blowing u off. did she know u was coming? is she the only reason u came? she might be a bit freaked if the answers no & yes.
2006-10-28 05:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by bubblesonme_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is something missing.. when she picked you up in the airport what happend next? because the next thing is about the horses..
maybe she's just sick, why dont you visit her?
im so bother about the horse and the missing part.
2006-10-28 05:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by <fish_me> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy you are sprung...... Why dont you go to her place and see her, if she is in bed (without another guy) then she is sick, if she is not home or with some eles she is blowing you off and you wasted you money
2006-10-28 05:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋