well here it is. there is this kid that moved to my town and he goes to my school. well i like him alot but my friend talked to him all period and now she likes him and i am the one who told her about him. i think she is going to ask him out should i first?
2006-10-28 04:38:43 · 8 answers · asked by ducati_gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your friend about it. Your friendship isn't worth this guy that neither of you have even dated yet.
2006-10-28 04:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by theresacra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really juvenile. Let your friend be a little kid and ask him out...it won't last because it never does when a girl asks a guy out...
Think about this...if he TRULY liked her, he would ask her out...
Guys think it is really unnattractive when the girl chases him.
For the guy, a relationship is normally about the chase it takes to get the girl.
Let her ask him out...if he says no (which he might) then it will show he doesn't even like her at all. But if he says yes...then it will not last longer than a week....
2006-10-28 11:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, quite frankly she isn't much of a friend if she knew you liked him first, so there is no sure fire way to avoid drama, don't roll over dead, I say just wait for him to ask one of you out, let old fashionedness take into effect! Believe me guys aren't usually as happy if you ask them out, they become bored because they may not have liked you but wanted a girlfriend so said yes! Good Luck, and if all else fails screw us guys and keep a good friend!
2006-10-28 11:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jersey Shore Bulldawg 33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your friend have to be honest with each other. Talk about it, but keep your eye on her. If she gets greedy then it's not worth it to argue about. A friend is only as good as their word. Friends over boys. The friends stick around, the boys don't always.
2006-10-28 11:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by spiceywolfe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you talked to him?? or do you like him from a far?? you could try to ask him out but don't lose a friendship over a guy!
2006-10-28 11:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the guy and tell him u like him and explain everything to him.im sure he would understand,if he didnt and ur friend ask him out.move on.oh yeah,if they broke up or she doesnt like him or he doesnt like her.go flirt with him,honey.spend some time with him. good luck! ;)
2006-10-28 11:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by Wheee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead the only thing that might happen is u get rejected are he says yes but u might loose youre freind then to i would thoe
2006-10-28 11:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by liss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know that you like him. Find out if he likes you. If he likes your friend, then find someone else.
2006-10-28 11:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Gray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋