We went out on a couple of dates. He was leaving town for good and I felt like I may never see him again. We both went for it. He said he would like to see me again, he lives 4 hours away. Was it wrong, it sure didn't feel wrong. He emailed me to let me know he got home okay. He told me that was not his intention with me although it felt good too.
2006-10-28 04:08:45 · 24 answers · asked by amygirl7362000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obviously u both wanted to be with each other and u did it. sounds like u both did want that to happen, keep talking and see how it goes 4 hrs isnt that far..meet in the middle thats only 2 hrs!
2006-10-28 04:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is my rules:
1. Get to know that person
2. Make sure they are disease free
3. Actually be in a relationship with that person
4. About 4 or 5 months is a good length to make them wait
2006-10-28 11:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by PrInCeSs P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have a medical condition that requires "going for it", then I agree with Pathfinder for all the reasons stated. Have you not heard that everything that may "feel good" may not always be good for you? That is the fast-food mentality that we have in this country. Gotta have it, and gotta have it now, and anyone suggesting anything different is crazy and somehow outside the mainstream way of thinking.
2006-10-28 11:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by rrticulate1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask because you have nagging doubts. Those nagging doubts are telling you it is wrong. It is your conscience. I read the other day that the standard of right and wrong is hard wired into us according to a scientist. He was verifying an observable truth. I have listened to well paid new age gurus spout off that there is no right and wrong until someone denigrates them effectively. Then they call for justice, belying their assertion that there is no right and wrong. Amazingly, they never catch the hypocrisy.
2006-10-28 11:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like a mistake to me.
It sounds like the two of you have made a good connection.
Try not to waste too much time dwelling on the past
- it can't be undone
- look ahead at making memories beyond regret.
Good luck, good love!
2006-10-28 11:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YIKES! Talk about a going away present? Hmmmm. Well, let's put it this way...it's over and done. You can't change what occured. In the future, keep the mattress aerobics to someone who you deeply love and is going to be sticking around :)
2006-10-28 11:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by lykes2win 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey sister if it felt good it was good you enjoy because soon you will be old and it wont be on tap like now i tell ya when i was a youngin i would bonk all da time because my mammy once told me the one you miss out on is da won ya will never make up on .
enjoy darlin get ya rocks and ya socks off cos we are growin old and pretty soon it aint gonna work no more.
2006-10-28 11:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by spudster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and he are both comfortable then no you didn't do anything wrong. besides he lives 4 hours away now, nothing wrong with having a good time!
2006-10-28 11:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D,NT feel bad I understand I would have done the same thing,like some to remember the person of.once you use protection,I hope you all meet again sometime.
2006-10-28 11:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be surprised if you don't hear from him again. Although you may get a booty call. If it's worth it to you, go for it. Only you can answer that question.
2006-10-28 11:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋