My girlfriend of 2 yrs is all off a sudden finding mistakes at watever i do.She said a lot of stuff that hurt me.When i ask her if i should wait till she regains normality...she says its up to me .She cant assure me that she will endup with me even if i decided to wait.Her reasoning is"no matter how much u love a person,its not necessary that u will/should endup with that person"I was really taken back when she said this.Is she indirectly trying to convey something?Should i hang on or just let her go??
2006-10-28 03:55:26 · 18 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hard truth: She doesn't want to be with you anymore. Perhaps there is someone else. Or she's just changed.
2006-10-28 03:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have some self respect, just walk over !
obviously, she has found some body else, so why should you now care ?
her attitude of finding faults is not at all fair, at the same time, analyse what irks her, might help you in dealing with another girl !
have a final discussion, and split, if she says, the relationship is not having any definate course, don't drift with her, have your own identity, individuality, and thinking !
this girl seems to be an over smart type for a straight forward guy like you !
2006-10-28 12:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by palador 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an independent young lady you have there.
Give her some space. Let her call you, or find you. Maybe she can resolve her problem, which she obviously isn't going to share at this point. Maybe she can't. Let her know you are giving her some space. Then go do what you like to do. What will be will be. Just let her know, you're giving her space. If she needs lots and lots of space, take a hint.
2006-10-28 11:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go honey - someone who really loves you and cares about you wouldn't even think of saying something like this. She's already checked out and apparently is too much of a coward to be open about it. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with a manipulative coward? Because that won't change if you let it continue.
2006-10-28 10:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by Stella Bing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe she is trying to make you finish with her so she can make out it was you that left ...... my advice to you is get out now dont wait go find someone that will appreciate you and love you like you should be loved and dont look back you have done all you can and now its time to let go.... she sounds to me like a very selfish, and ignorant person and you are well rid
2006-10-28 11:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you adore her, hang on a while and see how this develops. (be prepared for hurt, however) or, you can act proactively and leave her. She'll get over it faster than you will, but it will free you up to find someone who both loves you and wants to be with you. Right now, you don't have both
2006-10-28 10:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The shadow of love affair is being removed before her eyes. She has now entered into the real world. Try to be fare in her imagination if you want to continue.
2006-10-28 11:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like this relationship is not worth pursuing. Your girl seems to be finding fault with everything you do, and isn't being honest about her feelings towards you. It's time to move on.
2006-10-28 10:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go. She obviously is venturing off and most likely has someone else that is making her feel like this towards you. You will be okay. Just stick strong and keep your head up.
2006-10-28 10:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by PrInCeSs P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good thing is that must judge her circumstances also and if you find that she want to do something else then let her go. as the life never stops for the one relation.
but do judge the conditions so that in future you shouldn't repent for anything
2006-10-28 11:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by R. S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋