There's this guy that I've been in love, yes in love, with for about 3 months now. We never had a relationship but he came over to my house a month after we met and we made out and did some other stuff. He has a girlfriend and claim he's in love w/ her. They've been going out for 2wks. I also need to mention that I'm a frish in high school and he's a sr and so is his gf. I've gotten really depressed and both of us have really played w/ each other's emotions online. I think he still sort of has feelings 4 me and wants to get over me but I want to know how I should get over him. And believe me, this guy's a total babe! My ex even thinks so!
2006-10-28 03:41:54 · 18 answers · asked by Angie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well .. i've gotta tell you the truth .. it sounds like he really does like this girl .. he might have liked you when he came round your house but because the age difference is big at the age you and him are both at i reckon he knew he had to find a girl around his age .. which is what it looks like he's done ... maybe he does still have feelings for you but your legally underage and nothing can come of it for another couple of years or so which is why he's trying his hardest to keep away from you ... just try your hardest to hang out with your friends and forget about him .. i know its a lot easier said than done but it just has to be done .. however long its gonna take .. someones gonna come along whos gonna call you his gf .. Good luck with it all! Let me know how it goes xx
2006-10-28 03:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ciara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do'nt need to get over him here are some tips!
1. convence the girl thats dating him that he is (so called so called) ugly and mean to make her breake up with himm then you can grab him (ask him out) he'll probally be so despreat that he'll say yes a boy never likes to hang his head in a dump for too long.
2. lets say this girl is your friend make him jellous of you. Or @ any time try to get his attention (not in a bed way though) if you have a class wth him try to grab a seat next to him.If you can then once in awile ask for an eraser or what ever. If he isn't in any of your classes or the only time you see him is lunch than tell your freids you like him and try to move tables close to him purpisly let him oerhaer and say nice stuff about him.
Email me back! U r cool!
Bex
ps. my email is gigapug@yahoo.com
2006-10-28 03:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by Becca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, you will find a million more guys that will make you feel this way. The best thing to do is just forget about him. He's a lot older than you are and he probably only sees you as someone that he can have anytime he wants. You need to prove him wrong. Don't embarrass yourself by continuously running after this dude. He may be hot, but he's a loser. Move on to the next.
2006-10-28 03:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by TRUST_ME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cheats on his girlfriend with you and you think he's a total babe? Ummm ooookay. You need to set your standards a little higher. Don't give up the goodies to him. I just heard about a girl 17 years old who "just couldn't believe it could happen to her" was recently diagnosed with HIV. How come you kids don't ever consider it could happen to you? Worry children, because it can happen to you!
By the by, what is a frish?
2006-10-28 03:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you get over him? One big thing that will help you get over him is to realize that this guy is young, stupid, and doesn't really have feelings for you. When he came over to your house, you made out and "other stuff". He wants to continue playing with your emotions to see how much "other stuff" he can do with you. This might not be what you want to hear, but think about what I've said and I hope you move along because no one wants their heart toyed with.
2006-10-28 03:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly i would cut contact with him because always talking to him will not help you to get over it.
I would try and live your life and you will meet someone else. Looks are not everything its the person that counts.
You will eventually meet someone else and you will look back on this experience and think why did i feel like this over someone?
Keep your head high and smile and have some fun eventually this guy will just become a distant memory
2006-10-28 03:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
***** when that happens aint it lol..... meet someone really damn nice and it doesn't last :(
Seems to me he's just using you, you should forget about him, move on and find someone else, guys like this really aren't worthit (jeez and I'm a guy lol) whether he's gd looking or not, I'm sure there are more even better looking then him... no point drowning your tears over one guy.
He's having a time, he has a girlfriend and he has you feeling down and depressed, he's probably loving the attention, no point in giving him it
And by calling him a babe sounds like he's abit full of himself, just slap urself and say....... wtf... did I really like him?
Anyways, my advice is so bad lol, hope you get what I'm saying though, we've all been in situations like this before.
Best of luck to you! x
2006-10-28 03:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by crash2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on because he in to his girl still and he probably see it as a fling.so do not let him see you looking at him all the time even thought you did not move on act it.talk to other and act happy especially when he around like you d,NT even see him their,stay as far away from that looser .and th next time let you self be in a relationship for a good time before sleeping with any one.best wishes and I hope you meet some one you can trust.
2006-10-28 03:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the cold truth is he is only using you for action on the side. and all the stuff that is goin on now, is cos he wants some action off you. he has a girlfriend, who is the same age as him. he wont leave her for a freshman. he will get ridiculed for it. you should know, image is everything in highschool. you need to forget bout him cos it will only hurt you more.
2006-10-28 03:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey the best way to get over some one is to get under some one else. I no your in love with this guy but he obviously doesnt love you back and if he does he'd come running if he saw you with some one else.
2006-10-28 04:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by babie v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋