It's been 3 months since me and my boyfriend broke.I've been trying to date other guys, but no one seems to measure up to my ex boyfriend.what should I do????????????????
2006-10-28 03:35:57 · 9 answers · asked by shy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop comparing your new dates to your ex...if you keep doing that you will never be happy because nobody will be like him except him...how would you feel if a guy started dating you and he dumped you because you were not like his ex...exactly...if you are going to keepcomparing your dates to your ex, then I suggest you go back out with your ex because he is who you want to be with obviously, but remember you broke up for a reason are you willing to forget all about that reason?
I have dated women in the past who were in abusive relationships and when we would have a disagreement they would expect me to abuse them also...well guess what, I have never hit a woman and our relationships ended shortly thereafter because I was getting frustrated of being compared to the idiots they dated before...you may be missing outon a great relationship that may last a lifetime if you keep comparing everyone to your ex-boyfriend...get over him before you date anyone else...just my opinion...cheers
2006-10-28 03:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Chris W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your expectations are probably unrealistic. quit trying to find a guy like your ex and just like a guy for the individual he is.
2006-10-28 03:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry 2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep around until you find the right guy
2006-10-28 03:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never give up my dear. Keep on looking, you will find the right man for you.
2006-10-28 03:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop comparing every guy to your x - you can't give someone half a chance if you continue to do that. you need to accept new guy as he is and if you can't don't date until you can.
2006-10-28 03:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel i was once like dat but just keep ur head up no matter wat happens ok and if ya broke up it was for a reson God will give u someone who is 10 times better
i hope i was helpfull
2006-10-28 03:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Y3SSi<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not ready to date yet.
2006-10-28 03:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on always go fwd never back!!!!
2006-10-28 03:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep looking, don't go back
2006-10-28 03:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by blackratsnake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋