My ex wants to have my son taken out of gymnastics because it is impinge on his time. My son just made the gymnastics team and has more responsiblity this year. Anyone know of articles or websites about this subject. I want all the information I can get if this goes to court.
2006-10-28 03:35:29 · 10 answers · asked by tammy2573 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I WOULD THINK ANYTHING THAT HOLDS THEIR ATTENTION AND GIVES THEM FOCUS IS A GOOD THING, ESPECIALLY IF HE LIKES IT. MY SON IS ADHD, AN ADULT NOW, HE WAS IN GYMNASTICS AND WAS GREAT. HE STARTED SPEED SKATING AND LIKED THIS EVEN MORE. HE WENT TO NAT'LS AND WAS FAVORED TO WIN JR OLYMPICS, BUT FELL. I THINK ACTIVITIES LIKE THESE ARE VERY THERAPEUTIC.
2006-10-28 03:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by leo_galpalval 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All sports are good for children with ADHD.
When a child is doing something for himself and seeing the rewards...its a WOW.
Does he go to a doctor. Any good doctor will document that for you. Make sure and get those they will help. Ask for the paperwork now so you have all of your ducks in a row.
Are you using the Gymnastics as a tool for his ADHD, meaning if all grades are good you are able to attend. This is also a important tool for ADHD. All things that you can doc.(I did this with baseball, if I get a good report from your teachers practice and games are a go this week. It really worked for us.)
This shouldn't be about your husband it should be about the well-being of your son and if he is benefiting from the Gymnastics then your husband is only hurting him by taking it away.
More responsibilities and making the team; I bet he is really proud of himself! :O) Taking that away could only set him back.
There are many sites that will explain this. Just type in ADHD in search and bingo.
If it does go to court.....your child's voice might be a plus for you too; depending on his age.
Wishing you lots of luck.
2006-10-28 07:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got lots of good advice about what you really already know, that it is good for your son. He is also obviously good at it, since he made the team. What isn't all that great for him is conflict between his parents, and having to go through a court case. It is admirable that Dad doesn't want to lose time with him, is there a way to work out a compromise so that your son wins? Poor kid has enough challenge in his life without dealing with parental conflict or being pulled out of an activity that he is good at, likes (I assume), and boosts his self confidence!
2006-10-31 13:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Robin R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a student with ADHD last year (I teach) and I noticed a big difference in him when he started taking karate near the end of the school year. It gave him a healthy outlet for his energy and helped him control himself better during the day. I know karate isn't gymnastics, but I imagine the results would be similar.
2006-10-29 11:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by caitlinerika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that an ADHD child can concentrate on and enjoy andkeep moving is a positive. Sounds like your ex just wants to give you a hard time and be lazy because it is easier to sit around and yell at an ADHD child than to actively participate in raising the child and instilling the need techniques to help the child control their impulses.
2006-10-28 06:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by puzzleraspie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have a son with ADHD. Gymnastics is very important as it gives them a chance to keep moving. My son did well as long as things were fast paced but had a very hard time with slow things where he had to sit still for hours. Gymnastics will build his attention level and his self esteem. Tell your ex to think of his sons needs and go to gym with him if he really wants to have more time with him. You might go to WebMD and type in ADHD and see what comes up. They usually have great articles about all kinds of things as well as links to various sites.
2006-10-28 05:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by mamaskydragaon1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitly good for your son. When my son was diagnosed adhd I immediatly got him involved in as many different sports as I could so he would have something all year, as well as karate. My ex was like yours and felt it was unfair because he would have games or practice during "his" time. We fought and argued over it as well and he threatened to call his attorney so I went to my son's doctor and asked her what she thought and had her put it in writing. You can also research adhd on the web and it will give you all kinds of things that are good and bad. Good luck.
2006-10-28 16:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exercise is excellent for kids with ADHD. It helps them burn off excess energy, and concentrate better. My son has mild ADD (no hyperactivity), and there have been times when he has struggled with his concentration during homework. I have him go out back and jump on the trampoline for a few minutes, and it makes a huge difference. Good luck.
2006-10-30 04:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-31 10:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i was a gymnast for 4 years. It will keep them very active and wear them out
2006-10-28 08:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by kait 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋