he said he went to her house at 11 but he didnt leave my house till 12. and then she calls me at 4am asking for him. he didnt come home till 9 am. what should i think?
2006-10-28 03:17:32 · 20 answers · asked by Janellys H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well in this situation you have to be really careful! If you bug your boy friend about it, he might think that you don't trust him! What I would do is ask him about it, & if he doesn't want to talk about it, just drop the subjuect! But if it happens again, somethings seriously wrong!
2006-10-28 03:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's got someone on the side, he will try to deny it but that's what a lot (not all) guys do. my ex did something similar only he said he was going to work. the next day (we worked at the same place) when i went in i asked him if they were busy the night before and one of the other workers looked at me and said he wouldn't know he didn't work. Come to find out a few months later he was sleeping with someone i had known since i was 5 and that we worked with.
2006-10-28 10:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by leigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey hes lieing!!! SO it pretty much means he was somewhere he doesn't want you to know about. Sorry to say but prob another girl. Wake up hes a liar why are you still contemplating this relationship?? Leave say adios!! Find someone worth while.
2006-10-28 10:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by littlemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry! I hate to tell you but you asked. Kick him to the curb!!!! NEVER let any guy abuse you in any way! You probably know this & just need someone to tell you it's OK to confront that LIAR with what you know - THEN K I C K HIM TO THE CURB for GOOD--Your Good!!! There's a guy who really deserves you somewhere-be patient . Good Luck!!!
2006-10-28 10:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bijous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question on Yahoo anwers you already know what to think...you have two choices..accept it and forget it, or confront him and get the truth...whatever you do sulking about it and keeping it bottled up is NOT an option..
2006-10-28 10:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Melonie T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds suspisious. If you have a good open line of communication you should be able to ask him what he was doing, if you can't then you have some work to do on your relationship. If you have reason to suspect him of something then it;s time to get out.If not, then talk about it.
2006-10-28 10:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he did what he wants to do. People do that. It doesnt' mean that he is doing anything wrong, Just that he got a better idea and did that instead.
Leave it.
2006-10-28 10:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smell a rat. Demand an explanation...or end the relationship
2006-10-28 10:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think he is lying and ask him how his evening went. Dont tell him his sister called until after he has buried himself.
2006-10-28 10:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obvisouly he was somewhere else...hmmmmm you two need to talk, but dont jump on his case yet, let him explain. and you be the judge to believe him...god bless.
2006-10-28 10:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋