Last night while on the phone with my boyfriend he told me this: "If you can give me the answers to all these questions, then I will be with you forever and marry you". When he said that, I got silent.
The questions where "why is it so hard to be with you" , "why haven't i been to your new apartment", "what do things seem suspicious", and "why are you keeping me here".
It was like I went mute. I was so shocked at what he had said. I knew all the answers, but why didn't I answer?
Then he fell asleep with me on the phone and I fell out crying becayse in his sleep...He called my name. I didn't know how much he was really always thinking about me. I knew he was sleep because he was snoring crazy loud and then he sounded like maybe he was stretching and then called for me. I wanted to say "Baby I'm here" but I didn't want to disturb his peaceful snoring *haha*.
What do you think? I mean he cried with me on the phone and told me he wanted to be with me. I need input.
2006-10-28 03:09:09 · 13 answers · asked by PrInCeSs P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he needs some answers to move forward in the relationship. It sounds like there's no trust between you, though and that is a must have for a relationship to work.I think you should work on that first and then see where it goes.
2006-10-28 03:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are keeping him at a distance. I would think you have been hurt before and that you like him alot and he's really into you but you are afraid to let him get too close.
I would have to say that you need to answer his questions and if you really care about him it is time you allow him to get close. If you want him to stick around and if you want to marry him.
If you really just aren't that into him, you need to let him know that too. It really isn't fair for you to keep him from finding love out there if you aren't in love with him.
You should just sit down and tell him why you are so cautios with your heart and tell him what you have been through in the past. That way he can tell you his intentions and you two could move on from there.
2006-10-28 10:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to have a long conversation. He sounds like he just wants to know why he can't know what is going on in your world. Maybe he feels like he is left out of things in your life that he feels he should be a part of. Its not hard to share your life, you just have to feel he deserves it. You may feel like you know the answers to the questions, but if you could not answer them, then you must not know that much. Give the man a chance and let him in your life.
2006-10-28 10:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y can't you answer his questions? Seems like he cares more for you than you do for him and only you know the answer to that im just speculating. If you cannot communicate with him and be honest, you don't stand much of a chance at a strong and healthy relationship. He needs questions answered and if you can't answer them what good is keeping him hanging on a string, it isn't fair to him. I hope you can find it in yourself to reach out to him seems that is all he is asking for. Good luck, GOD BLESS!
2006-10-28 10:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that's a good sign.if he wants 2 b wid u,n if he really means then ther's nothin 2 worry about.do 1 thing,ans all those questions frankly.i'll try 2 solve ur questions ans as follow if u want.
1)coz i luv u so much that its very hard 2 stop that(rather immpossible)
2)coz 1 day we'll b 8 OUR appartment n not mine
& u can ans something more like that.
2006-10-28 10:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by steafy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh how sweet "no really " maybe time is the answer, and your essence being the question, bring yourselves forward to a commitment big or small, old and new, which could be as simple as movies on a certian night..........you will have plenty of time to have more feeling means
2006-10-28 10:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by jimmy_hendrixs_era 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves u a lot dear...... he misses u a lot .... so go ahead and say Yes I will be urs forever.... cos the two of u can do wonders.....All The Best
2006-10-28 10:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by Eranga D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of it makes any sense to me. You guys are kinda weird.
2006-10-28 10:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer his questions then, let him know how you feel.
2006-10-28 10:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk!
2006-10-28 10:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋