I mean kids just say i love you to each other and stay happy for some time but later break up. Should you go into relations at this age or wait till you are older? And in these breakups most of the time who is the culprit guys or gals?
2006-10-28 03:03:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most people would tell you wait to be in a relationship and in most cases it's true. With age comes wisdom if you feel you're not ready you should wait. It's really had to tell who the culprit is it all depends on the maturity level of both parties.
2006-10-28 03:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it is hard to say whether it is worth it or not. It really depends on each individual teenager. Some teenagers are much more mature than others, and some of them had to grow up quickly due to certain life circumstances, so it is not unusual to be in a committed relationship that has a potential to last. For the typical teenager, however, I think that the relationships they develop during those years are short term, yet important for their development. It gives them experience that teaches them a lot for the future. It also allows them to learn about what they are looking for in a potential life partner, which is somethign that can really only be found through experience.
2006-10-28 03:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenage love is a part of growing up. This is a time of much emotional upheaval; one day you're happy; the next day you think your world is falling apart. You eventually learn what works and what doesn't. You learn a lot from these relationships and it doesn't matter who causes the breakups most of the time. Everyone's learning, growing, maturing, getting ready for the real thing that eventually you'll be ready for.
2006-10-28 03:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(Good question!)
Well,we all have to start somewhere! (smile),but saying: " I love you", too early can create some problems,in girls,because we tend to "think with our hearts". Girls are emotional,while guys are visual. I'm not being judgemental,but a lot of "Teenage Love",is not love,but infatuation. Girls tend to be attracted to the "Jocks" in High School,and hoping they'll be the lucky one to date him,while the Guys want to date the "Cheerleaders". (sort to speak). When your young,the felling of infatuation will come many times in a life. Dating someone,and enjoying being with that person,is a good felling,but when we start saying : "I love you",we don't stop to think one way or another,because it's just human nature. When the break-up occurs,we fell hurt,simply because we cared deeply about that person,and we just can't understand why it had to happen. (Now) "The Culprit?" -We can't say,because that all depends on who did or said "what". It's the forgiving process that counts. Because sometimes it is hard to forgive a person you cared about (No matter how old you are),for what they've done,the challenge is to be able to move on with your life,without any hard fellings.
2006-10-28 03:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are more the culprit because you know, guys and their raging teenage horemones will attach themselves to the girl for anything int he world bla bla bla. i'm 17 so i understand this, so it's mostly worth getting into for either experience for later on in life or for some fun but try not to take it seriously because it'll hurt than. i'ma wait for university. . . get sum nice mature uni chicks and be serious with them, teenage girls are to immature and dun take it serious. also you have studies and stuff when ur a teen so a relationship gets in the way of that but if you plan on droppin out than dw bout it and go straight for the chicks rofl. gl man
2006-10-28 03:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by flaming_ichigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puppy love is an important part of learning about relationships and growing up.
Go ahead and fall in love, when you're older you'll look back fondly on the memories of your teenage crushes.
Just keep your pants on so you don't end up with problems you're not ready to deal with. Just have fun while you're young.
2006-10-28 03:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Z Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is totally worth it.
My parents got together when they were 14, and they are happily married to this day, at 45 years old.
Now, I'm not saying that this will happen with every relationship, but for every relationship that comes to an end, it teaches us a lesson in life.
2006-10-28 03:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are usually the culprits. Don't commit to a relationship when you are a teenager. You change and your preferences change.
2006-10-28 03:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we often fail to understand that what & who we do will determine our characters as we grow. I agree, sometimes the "L" word tends to be over used to the extend that it loses value but yet again do keep in mind that not all our deffinitions of LOVE are similar. Everyone perceives love to what they understand it to be. Least we can do at this stage is accomodate & try take things slow... you never know or understand what love is untill you accomodate the other party for what they are **take care**
2006-10-28 03:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by rebonelerat2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young relationships can get you ready for the real thing later.
the trick is to keep it in perspective. You sound smart enough to do this. Other thingsa are more important (family, education) at this age.
2006-10-28 03:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋